Shugu, Good...you did the right thing at the right time :) .. two thumbs up!!
but to telling you the truth... respecting womens and girls and not touching them in sunday bazar does not dealt by the Government yaar...we have to reform education... we have to reform family system..reform our social system, build understanding that the girl you are staring or ogling is same as your mother and sister back in your home, we have to reform that MA aur Behan kee gaalian (that we did even in sub-conscious) are not good but trust me I have seen such educated and people at extremely chair swear like hell and their focal point is nothing but women!! ... praising beauty versus "discussing" are the two different things... Faisal, lets have a program some day over "Swearing in our socitey" (suggestion)...I remember we have a show with Bajia and the superb lecture on mannerism and respect....Faisal, once more!!! a society that build in the name of religion have such issue. way back in US culture where Fuck is the most common word is also the most offended word in their routine life and they did not say it general life (PS: don't judge Americans from Movies, please!!!) I suggest if we could able to teach/counsel a about-to-be mother that how she raise her children then things have to be getting better but let me share the sad fact... our NGO are focused on the Health of mothers but they do not focused on the educating and awareness of this aspect... Yes, I knew boys and men equally need to be guided but we seriously need a social reform in all such aspect... and There is nothing better then Education and an absolute education is inevitable in Pakistani culture. peace! ZH On Thu, Oct 9, 2008 at 9:11 AM, sophia Al- khawar <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>wrote: > but then tell me shamsa, how many women are standing up for it? alot of > women have come into power what have they done? are u from baluchistan? iam > married into a Quetta family and the drastic change is like a slap on the > face! i never realized it was such a nucience to be a woman :P when i > entered baluchistan the world had changed, i was prey all eyes on me! see > what i mean mind set, education, keeping women in houses as if they are the > treasure of ali baba in the name of honor, frustration buildss up , > curiosity builds up and because she is PUBLIC property they have a right to > do all they can! in Karachi i remember once i was in Sunday Bazaar and this > man who wasnt a karachite touched me n went, normally women keep quite, but > why should they, its ur body, no one has the right to even put their nail on > u till u dont permit, i remember the racket i made n the stool i threw at > him, once i did that, he got a beating that he would always remember if he > ever tries to touch a gurl! > > Soph > > > shugu > > > ------------------------------ > Date: Wed, 8 Oct 2008 21:19:32 +0200 > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > To: [email protected] > Subject: [ankahi:1232] Re: i feel helpless.could u please help me? > > > As a balochi girl..felt really bad..and debated with few balochs....But > really some how it is our problem too that we need men for the > support...why??????????????????? > Shame on those balochs who named it as criminality as culture ...No honour > in killing.... > > You are right about what u have written... We as women should fight to get > the equal status and respect.... > > > > > --~--~---------~--~----~------------~-------~--~----~ You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "Loose Ends Pakistan" group. To post to this group, send email to [email protected] To unsubscribe from this group, send email to [EMAIL PROTECTED] For more options, visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/looseendspakistan?hl=en -~----------~----~----~----~------~----~------~--~---
