Lovers,
Hi Emil !
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From: Emil Rezandi Juni <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> apakah teori ini memang selalu berlaku ? saya mengalami mirip2 ini nih
> (mirip lho, nggak persis banget), dan berasa banget bahwa ternyata cowok
> tidak se'hebat' itu dan cewek tidak se'lemah' itu... and let me tell you
> guys..... *nggak enak banget* ngerasa kayak gini.... kayak nggak ada
> pegangan, pokoknya cacat banget deh...
> it's been over 5 months, and i can't put her off my mind, dan dia
> sekarang udah punya cowok baru, serius pula....
> so, apa semua cowok kayak gini ? or is it just me ?
based on my personal experience : gue pernah MUTUSIN cewek, krn dia ternyata
udah "jenuh" sama gue, terus dia jalan sama cowok lain, tapi cowok tsb
ternyata sdh menikah, actualy they met over the net in a chat room ! really
DUMB !
the thing is NEVER try to get over her, let it go naturally ! the more you
try to forget her, the harder it'll be. why ? because you keep saying to
yourself "forget HER, forget HER, forget HER", so..she's still the issue
here. try to do things that you like, try some ON-LINE QUAKE2 experience, I
find that very handy in my hard moments. read good books, ie. BEING HAPPY, 7
HABITS, PHANTOM MENACE & the list goes on. TRY some things you never try
before, like going to the movie ALONE, BUNGEE JUMPING, RAFTING, CLIMBING
etc. if you are a religious person, you can surely PRAY, trust me on this
one, it actualy WORKS, but please, don't say "God...make me over HER !".
This can also help, BURN your old love letters, put her pictures in a big
brown envelope, seal it and put it some place dark and cold, like under your
dish cabinet.
one more thing : there's nothing wrong to cry, as a matter of fact, crying
CAN restore your soul, it's like a release valve for your burden. hey, even
some reseach show that crying can actualy refresh your spirit !
so...take it easy and do other things that will improve yourself rather than
destroying yourself. when it's over, don't wait until you're over ! a man
got to do what he got to do !
Spyder
"I...survived"
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