big thanks for mr laba2,
actually saya minta konfirmasi apakah teori yang saya tulis itu bisa
digeneralisasi atau nggak, karena based on my own experience, it's true...
inilah tujuan saya posting pada awalnya.
but hey, i do need some methods to get her 'off' my mind... 'not completely
off', but more like 'off on the particular side of my mind' , and i do feel
that your advices are worth to try...
my replies are inline,
----- Original Message -----
From: Anton Susanto <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> based on my personal experience : gue pernah MUTUSIN cewek, krn dia
ternyata
> udah "jenuh" sama gue, terus dia jalan sama cowok lain, tapi cowok tsb
> ternyata sdh menikah, actualy they met over the net in a chat room !
really
> DUMB !
wow, sorry to hear that.. :-(
for some people, chat room and icq bisa jadi biro jodoh yang lumayan menarik
lho...
padahal the words are : "in the net, we'll never know if it's actually a cat
who learned to write..."
but some people just won't listen !... :-(
> the thing is NEVER try to get over her, let it go naturally ! the more you
> try to forget her, the harder it'll be. why ? because you keep saying to
> yourself "forget HER, forget HER, forget HER", so..she's still the issue
> here. try to do things that you like, try some ON-LINE QUAKE2 experience,
I
> find that very handy in my hard moments. read good books, ie. BEING HAPPY,
7
> HABITS, PHANTOM MENACE & the list goes on. TRY some things you never try
> before, like going to the movie ALONE, BUNGEE JUMPING, RAFTING, CLIMBING
> etc. if you are a religious person, you can surely PRAY, trust me on this
> one, it actualy WORKS, but please, don't say "God...make me over HER !".
> This can also help, BURN your old love letters, put her pictures in a big
> brown envelope, seal it and put it some place dark and cold, like under
your
> dish cabinet.
it's true.... my mind is full of her, and her, and her... pas gue baca kata
'rafting' di atas, gue langsung inget bahwa "darn, minggu ini mereka (my eks
dan pacar barunya) bakal rafting bareng"...he-he-he...
ok mr spyder, saya akan coba untuk lebih giat lagi deh..
> one more thing : there's nothing wrong to cry, as a matter of fact, crying
> CAN restore your soul, it's like a release valve for your burden. hey,
even
> some reseach show that crying can actualy refresh your spirit !
> so...take it easy and do other things that will improve yourself rather
than
> destroying yourself. when it's over, don't wait until you're over ! a man
> got to do what he got to do !
yes, definitely... saya juga ngerasa gitu tuh... setuju 100 % !
well, thanks again for the advice,
emilr
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