I am not a pretender. I have learned how to listen and to help the person I am working with how to deal with the problem they may be having. Guido Vermeulen may be able to explain what I do. I have put about 200 people through the programs on a one to one. LaVona --- guido bondioli <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
> > It's the braver > > more feeling and the more kind sort of people who > do > > not flee. They are > > able to be here in the world with the bad and the > > good although I cannot > > explain how. I am so brave only sometimes. And > > you? > It seems not to be brave at all. It is a matter of > interest in and involvement with the person in the > incident. When I was in the fire service I picked up > hundreds of accident victims. Most were alive. Being > repulsed was of little use. Reducing the stress in > the > situation was most useful. Talking calmly, being > reassuring, asking if there is some way of BEING > HELPFULL are way better ways to approach people who > are obviously having problems. My experience since > becoming ill has been that most people most of the > time, seeing illness or injury, go on attack. All of > these OH SO SENSITIVE people are just pretenders and > ultimately make things far worse than they could be. > > > > > > > __________________________________________________ > Do You Yahoo!? > Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam > protection around > http://mail.yahoo.com > http://www.picturetrail.com/lavonasherarts __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com To unsubscribe, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Mailinglist from Sztuka Fabryka http://www.sztuka-fabryka.be/ Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/ma-network/ <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [EMAIL PROTECTED] <*> Your use of Yahoo! Groups is subject to: http://docs.yahoo.com/info/terms/
