Kawal, if someone stops speaking to you over a mailing list, they weren’t a friend.:)
These resources are good for information but things like email and email lists just aren’t good for expression of anything even remotely emotional. It’s to easy to mistake what the intent of someone posting something is. Bottom line don’t take anything online to seriously. > On Aug 26, 2015, at 5:16 PM, Kawal Gucukoglu <[email protected]> wrote: > > So let's say who ever offends subscribes to the new list and says something > out of sorts then there is a spat on that new list before a mod steps in. > You see in my thinking, the damage is already been done as harsh words are > said and therefore in my thinking the same problem occurs. I know a mod can > band them straight away but we being human beings don't always forget the bad > things as it's in human nature to remember harsh words. > > Personally I have had people writing to me saying that they no longer wish to > communicate with me who belong to this list. Whilst I don't like it because > I prefer to try and talk issues through, I have had to learn to accept that > people will not speak to me and have had to continue as if nothing has > happened. That for me has been very hard to deal with but I have had to do > so. So for me, it doesn't matter what a person may say as long as we all > respect each other. One of the reasons why I don't contribute so much to > this list because people can drop a friend ship after knowing you for more > than four years. A painful lesson. > > Kawal. > > -- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > "MacVisionaries" group. > To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an > email to [email protected]. > To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. > Visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/macvisionaries. > For more options, visit https://groups.google.com/d/optout. -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "MacVisionaries" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to [email protected]. To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. Visit this group at http://groups.google.com/group/macvisionaries. For more options, visit https://groups.google.com/d/optout.
