On 20.10.22 18:50, Grant Taylor via mailop wrote:
On 10/20/22 10:32 AM, Jaroslaw Rafa via mailop wrote:
I consider this being purely a connectivity thing.

Except that it's not a /connectivity/ thing.  At least not on any OSI layer.  
The rejection that you are advocating for is sent across / over / through the 
established connection.  So, no, I don't believe it's a /connectivity/ thing.

Well, it's both at the SMTP layer:

t-online.de to me:

$ telnet mx00.t-online.de 25
Trying 194.25.134.8...
Connected to mx00.t-online.de.
Escape character is '^]'.
554 IP=478.944.843.488 - A problem occurred. (Ask your postmaster for help or 
to contact [email protected] to clarify.)
Connection closed by foreign host.

Me to t-online.de:

$ telnet mx.uu.org 25
Trying 192.251.226.74...
Connected to mx.uu.org.
Escape character is '^]'.
220 mx.uu.org ESMTP Proxmox
helo something.uu.org
250 mx.uu.org
MAIL FROM:<[email protected]>
250 2.1.0 Ok
rcpt to:<[email protected]>
554 5.7.1 <[email protected]>: Sender address rejected: Sender domain not 
setup to receive mail from here; contact [email protected] to whitelist the sender 
IPs for this domain.
quit
221 2.0.0 Bye
Connection closed by foreign host.

Same level.

Do you call the pone company to report a problem calling a phone number when they answer 
the call, say "I'm not talking to you.", and hang up on you?

I don't get your point, as that is what t-online.de is effectively doing.

The proposed configuration change only makes this visible and clear,

I disagree that it will make it visible.

Well, [email protected] would now know, if that would have been a real SMTP 
session.

I doubt that it will make it clear.

It will prevent responses written into the void. That's a Good Thing™.

First and foremost, that relies on the rejection notice, and details 
thereabout, to make it back to the sender.  What's more is that it requires the 
sender to have (access to someone with) a modicum of understanding.

[email protected] is there to help T-Online users in these cases.

Even if the sender is clued into what is happening on a technical level, you are still 
left with the mismatch in size of companies, the larger company tends to have an 
advantage (at least) as large as the size discrepancy.  Senders will almost always say 
"well I can send to others so it can't be on my side thus it must be on the 
recipient's side".

Yeah, so what you are saying is: because t-online.de has 12 millions more 
mailboxes, it is OK for them to mail my users but to block my user's responses 
at the same time? I disagree.

Maybe over time their will consider changing their "default block" approach.

Isn't there some rule / guideline / law that states that the longer that 
something has been in place the longer it is likely to stay in place? Seeing as 
how T-Online has purportedly had this in place for a decade, I doubt that it's 
going to change any time soon.

I do agree on that. Hence the move to make sure future postmasters will not be 
bothered _unless_ _their_ users initiate the conversation. It's, after all, not 
their fault that t-online.de is setup north-korean style.

P.S. Reach for / strive for better, don't settle for what we have.  If at all 
possible don't make things worse.

Less lost mail in my view _is_ better, therefore I completely disagree with 
your counting. See my reply to an test email I sent yesterday from @t-online.de 
to a test server of mine wait for expiry ...

# mailq
-Queue ID-  --Size-- ----Arrival Time---- -Sender/Recipient-------
098221201B0      916 Thu Oct 20 21:07:45  [email protected]
(host mx01.t-online.de[194.25.134.72] refused to talk to me: 554 
IP=931.620.721.400 - A problem occurred. (Ask your postmaster for help or to 
contact [email protected] to clarify.))
                                         [email protected]

-- 0 Kbytes in 1 Request.

This would have been prevented if [email protected] would not have reached 
that mailbox in the first place. Getting the bounce directly that they cannot 
sent there, they might use another known email address of the receipient or 
revert to other means of contact. Or even reach out to tosa@rx to clarify the 
situation with testmail.uu.org's postmaster.

As t-online.de is not likely to change their setup, the sanest approach is to 
limit the overall damage, which is to reject mail from t-online.de _unless_ 
they whitelisted one's sending IPs (as per SPF, most likely).
-kai
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