This is very sad and disturbing, mudah2an mentalitas seperti lelaki arab
seperti ini tidak dicontoh oleh lelaki indonesia, dan mudah2an ini juga
menjadikan pelajaran bagi wanita2 indonesia yg bersedia menjadi istri (selir)
pria arab, perkwainan dgn pria arab tidak mungkin solid and last forever karena
biasanya motivasi perkawinan wanita indo - pria arab bukan berdasarkan rasa
cinta dan kasih sayang, just sex buat pria arab dan uang dinar buat wanita
indonesia, karena motivasi perkawinan hanya utk sex dan uang, perlakukan bahwa
ini lembaga utk cari duit, disamping bersikap waspada terhadap kelicikan2 pria
arab ini.
salam' O
http://www.arabnews.com/?page=1§ion=0&article=90216&d=20&m=12&y=2006&pix=kingdom.jpg&category=Kingdom
Wednesday, 20, December, 2006 (30, Dhul Qa`dah, 1427)
Wife in Indonesia, Maid in Kingdom
Maha Akeel, Arab News
JEDDAH, 20 December 2006 An 18-year-old Indonesian woman sought the
help of her countrys embassy in Riyadh for a divorce from her abusive husband
only to find out that her marriage with the elderly Saudi was not recognized
and she is in the Kingdom actually as his maid, Arab News has learned.
Noor Aysha Bukhari came crying to the embassy last week after less than three
months of living under the impression that she was married to F.S., who she
claims abused her and forced her to serve his two other Saudi wives and his
children.
The lawyer retained by the embassy, Nasser Al-Dandani, confirmed the case to
Arab News and said that Indonesian officials would follow up on it and provide
proof that the couple got married in Indonesia.
We will then go to court to persuade him to admit the marriage and
consequently divorce her and compensate her, said the lawyer.
The marriage would still be considered illegal in Saudi Arabia because he
never registered it with the authorities and brought Bukhari into the country
on a domestic servant visa.
The young woman came to the embassy a few days ago complaining of her
husbands mistreatment and seeking a divorce.
Bukhari says that she occupied a room on the second floor of F.S.s house
where, during the day, she took care of his three children from his first
marriage and served his second wife and three other children, and in the
evening she played the role as the mans third wife.
Saudi men often take second wives, according to social custom, creating
insecurity for first wives.
F.S. initially admitted to the marriage, but later denied it, according to a
source close to the case who did not want to be named.
He is refusing to admit the marriage unless she pays him back a loan of
SR3,200 he claims to have given her family because of their poor financial
situation, said the source, adding that this loan was actually the dowry the
man paid to marry the woman in Indonesia.
This is not an individual case although such cases are not very common,
according to sources. A few months ago a local newspaper reported that an
Indonesian woman came as a maid to look for her son from her Saudi ex-husband
who married her in Indonesia, then divorced her and took her son.
It is common for Saudi men to marry Indonesian women temporarily through
misyar (no obligation) marriages and divorce them after paying a relatively
small sum, which to the poor women and their families makes a big difference.
Al-Watan newspaper recently wrote that 89 percent of Saudi households have at
least one maid. The total number of domestic workers is well over 1 million,
including Bangladeshis, Indians, Filipinos, Ethiopians, Indonesians, Nepalese
and Sri Lankans
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