We live in a society that doesnt encourage touching hugging or nurturing, and
I surely understand why some people in our country have a hard time learning to
express love and affection in nonsexual ways, since I moved to this country 25
years ago I discovered the healing power in the human touch.
My dog Cinta seems very restless if I forgot to touch her, my husband never
failed to touch me even just to messing up my hair, patients and coworkers at
work always using hand touching for every little things....touch, how important
it is to keep human feeling loved, secured and stay connected.
A man reaching out to touch or hold hands is a turn on for women, while men
generally hold hands in the courting stage, they stop after while. This is a
big loss, woman loves to feel that a man wants to connect with her in this way,
she doesnt feel loved if the only time he wants to touch her is when he wants
sex.
If man wants his partner to feel receptive to sex, he needs to touch her in a
affection way many times each day when he is not wanting sex. He can hold
hands, put his arm around her, stroke her shoulders and arms, all without
implying that he is wanting sex.
If th eonly tie he touches her is when he wants sex, she begins to feel used
or taken for granted.
When I started being more affectionate since I get older, it made a
tremendous difference , I couldnt believe that one simple little touch could
have such a big influence,I had heard that some women need to be touch touched
20 times a day in nonsexual way to build high self esteem.
Not only touching is a great way to connect and feel close at any time, but
it also softens the rough edges at times and brings people back to feeling the
love for each others.
just put a lil touch one day at a time
salam
omie
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