I heard this before: There is the cart then the horse and a carrot dangling in front of the horse. I do have a hard time at times to see bad in people that I meet..dj
On Tue, Mar 2, 2010 at 7:55 AM, Pat <[email protected]> wrote: > > > On 1 Mar, 19:48, Doris Briscoe <[email protected]> wrote: > > Me: to me is a center of a person and spreads out beyond his or her self. > I > > do not think there is not one person on this earth that has lived just > for > > their self, at least I have not ran into this or seen this. People will > > touch others one way or another. It is going to be a good thing or it > will > > be bad and the good will always leave a great impression in ones mind. > dj > > > > Yes, but seemingly bad things can actually turn out good and vice > versa. Without knowing the full context, our judgements are unclear > at best. > > Also, as food for thought: Are we drawn to something because we see it > as good or do we see something as good because we are drawn to it? > Which is the cart and which is the horse? > > > > > > > On Mon, Mar 1, 2010 at 7:36 AM, Pat <[email protected]> > wrote: > > > > > On 20 Feb, 05:17, Ash <[email protected]> wrote: > > > > I think I would like to be myself, with the feeling that I am living > out > > > > my purpose. How great, but who and what that is, I wonder... > > > > > You are. I can guarantee that. You will only know all the details on > > > your last day. And you may not know it's your last day until the last > > > second. Nevertheless, there is no doubt that you are fulfilling your > > > purpose. That's been another one of those 'secrets' that was revealed > > > by Special Relativity and the concept of a space-time continuum. All > > > that you will do is already a part of it and you are just perceiving > > > the motion from some parts of it to the next due to the expansion of > > > space-time. So, realise that you ARE fulfilling your purpose. BUT, > > > are you doing everything that you would like to do? Are there changes > > > that you could make to better your life or the lives of others? If > > > so, what can you do to move yourself towards accomplishing that? Self- > > > motivation is the key. If you want to get to point B, then you must > > > move towards it. > > > > > > There is much purpose I could derive from my understanding of things > and > > > > meaning from my experiences. It seems there is an overabundance of > > > > opinions on matters and directions to follow which makes it difficult > to > > > > develop a sense of continuity. There are some powerful practical > > > > worldviews out there, but I've seen them as dangerous like a prison > for > > > > the mind. There are many things I would not like to be and have > plenty > > > > of first hand examples in mind. There must be more than avoiding pain > > > > and suffering, or seeking power and dominance though they may provide > > > > valuable lessons about a larger picture. > > > > > > I would like to embrace my potentials, freely navigate possible > paths, > > > > augment my limitations, overcome my challenges all while being true > to > > > > the self (knowledge, memories, feelings, needs, desires, values). I > > > > think this cannot be done by supressing myself but with affirmative > > > > compassion and rational analysis of the self. Too much experience > with > > > > the former makes this a struggle, but since there were reasons for > > > > taking that path I have to determine its meaning and seek > > > > reconciliation. From this process might arise an answer to your > question. > > > > > Yup. you're on the right track alright. You must accept that which > > > has been yet still strive towards where you want to be. Irrespective, > > > you WILL fulfill your purpose. Have no doubt of that. In fact, you > > > couldn't avoid it if you tried. > > > > > > On 2/18/2010 9:27 AM, Molly wrote: > > > > > > > Expanding Identities > > > > > > > Who am I? > > > > > > > How you answer that question says a lot, not just about how you see > > > > > yourself, but also about how you see others and how you relate to > the > > > > > world. And it s an important question at this time in history when > the > > > > > challenges of our global community are drawing us out of limited > > > > > identities based on "me" and "mine" into identities based on the > "we" > > > > > of the whole planet. > > > > > > > Identities help us find our way in the world, navigate challenges > and > > > > > make choices. They can be founded on anything from the color of our > > > > > skin or religious orientation, to goals we have achieved or dreams > we > > > > > hold. Often during times of stress those boundaries can contract > and > > > > > tighten we protect what is ours more rigorously and separate > ourselves > > > > > from the needs of others. > > > > > > > But times of struggle can also be motivation to expand our > boundaries. > > > > > Instead of contracting around our own needs, we can open to the > needs > > > > > of others, share resources, and choose to cooperate. As we do so, > our > > > > > identities shift and the separation between "me" and "you" or "us" > and > > > > > "them" seems less compelling and defining. But how can this happen? > > > > > Where do we start? > > > > > > > Its not easy letting go of strong identifications, opening to those > > > > > who are different than us, or finding ways to share resources and > live > > > > > together peacefully. Expanding our identities is our choice, and > our > > > > > imperative. We can restrict ourselves around a small "me" or around > an > > > > > impenetrable group boundary. Or we can discover ways to relate more > > > > > deeply to others and life itself. It may be that not only our own > > > > > wellbeing, but the long-term viability of the entire earth is at > > > > > stake. It is up to each of us to answer and live the question, > moment > > > > > by moment: Who would I like to be? > > > > > > >http://www.globalonenessproject.org/themes/expanding-identities > > > > > > > What do you think?- Hide quoted text - > > > > > > - Show quoted text - > > > > > -- > > > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google > Groups > > > ""Minds Eye"" group. > > > To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. > > > To unsubscribe from this group, send email to > > > [email protected]<minds-eye%[email protected]> > <minds-eye%2bunsubscr...@googlegroups.com> > > > . > > > For more options, visit this group at > > >http://groups.google.com/group/minds-eye?hl=en.- Hide quoted text - > > > > - Show quoted text - > > -- > You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups > ""Minds Eye"" group. > To post to this group, send email to [email protected]. > To unsubscribe from this group, send email to > [email protected]<minds-eye%[email protected]> > . > For more options, visit this group at > http://groups.google.com/group/minds-eye?hl=en. > > -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups ""Minds Eye"" group. 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