Hello, Paul wrote.... "Why are so many people so quick to slag others off?! How do you think YOU would feel to be on the receiving end?? I speak from experience as I've been laughed at - even by other 'mods'.....(The whole Northern Mods List seems to be in league against me!)" Hmm...that`s not true Paul. I think the feeling that appeared on the list was a result of a number of past disagreements coming to the fore. It wouldn`t have been hard, at one point you probably accounted for 50% of daytime posts to the list! I myself have had words a long time ago on this list, but I`ve never held a grudge and I`m not going to start now. The stuff on the NM list was dragged out more by a "fake Secular" appearing on there. But it started because some people must have had cause for disagreement in the past. The Northern Mods list is one of the friendliest lists I`ve ever been on and I would be shocked if anyone disagreed with that (and by the way, I don`t own the list, I`m just responsible for doing the accompanying website). It`s easy to say things, but a lot harder to put things right. Caroline wrote: "As regards to Northern list, I'm not on that one but I do sympathise with you as they don't know you (nor do I for that matter) but Paul, just ignore them!! There's more to life than moaning about what other people think of you....start enjoying it!" There`s 2 sides to every story. I can understand you might be aggrieved Paul, but can you honestly say you`ve never been unpleasant or made a fool of someone on this list ?? If you act in the way you say you`ll act, then I`m sure others will act the same way towards yourself. This list could do with it - it`s being dying a slow death for months. The likes of Northern Mods and Bespoke wouldn`t have sprung up if everything was fine and dandy. Cheers, David. -- David Walker Northern Mods Website And Mailing List: http://www.modculture.com ___________________________________________________________ T O P I C A The Email You Want. http://www.topica.com/t/16 Newsletters, Tips and Discussions on Your Favorite Topics
