At 11:09 AM 9/6/2007, you wrote: > [SA previously] > > >There is no opening to dash out from behind these >habits > > that hide us. You can at times, but it might be >weird, > > the comedian still gets some laughs, I'm talking >about > > all the informal behaviors. When do you see them? >How > > >often? With who? > > [Marsha] > > It's not so hard to see them, if you're watching and > > not in a hurry. > >[SA] > You have time? Isn't this U.S. culture - time is >$?
Yes and no, I have chosen time over money. I retired 9 years ago. > [Marsha] > > To be both comedian and audience is not difficult, >and > > laughter is a blessing worth sharing. > > 'With who?' Are you asking who's habits get > > exposed? > > [SA] >With what people have you been able to share your >time and really get to know them? Hmmmm. We've been here before. I'm an introvert. I do not enjoy sharing my time casually. You and the people on this forum probably know me better than most. I have a few close friends, but I do not know how deeply I know them. I allow them to share what they choose to share. I am not sure how well I even knew my husband, and we were very good friends and lovers. It's not easy to know past ones expectations of another person. That's a BIG problem. BTW, what's you 'real' name? Aren't you hiding, big time??? >[SA] >This is what I'm getting to. How often, and in >what situations are we able to see passed the >usual, common, cultural habits/norms, and >see who that person really is? I'm not sure what works for others. For me it took 6 years of living in a semi-solitude. Time to ask the questions and wait for some answers. Time to pick at some scars and sink deep into old wounds. Time to realize that there is only one source, and that you are me, and I am you. That's who that other person is too, me and you. And it takes vigilance not to forget it. Jeez, I feel I should list all my bad habits, and there are many, but fuck it, I'm not going to. Marsha Moq_Discuss mailing list Listinfo, Unsubscribing etc. http://lists.moqtalk.org/listinfo.cgi/moq_discuss-moqtalk.org Archives: http://lists.moqtalk.org/pipermail/moq_discuss-moqtalk.org/ http://moq.org.uk/pipermail/moq_discuss_archive/
