Hi Dave,

Matt said:
I still can't help but think that attributions of the straw-man fallacy 
create more emotional hay than they do in helping clear the 
landscape of misapprehensions (excuse my mixed metaphors).  Too 
many fires are lit from the remains, which just adds to our heat 
problem and obscures our vision.

DMB said:
To say that accusations cause mistrust is a little like saying that 
arrests cause crime. I mean, if the accusation is not unfounded, then 
it is the straw-man maker that has destroyed trust. It's not 
accusations of evasion that causes mistrust, it's the evasive 
weasel-wordy behavior that destroys trust. These tactics are not part 
of an honest or sincere conversation and I sincerely believe that it is 
wrong NOT to complain about them.

Matt:
If you are replying the above as in opposition to what I said (just 
there or more broadly to my earlier description of how trust 
functions), then I think you grabbed what I was saying by the wrong 
handle.  I was not attempting to reduce the creation of mistrust to 
accusers, nor--more broadly--polemically enter into current debates 
about who's done what to whom.  In this passage, my writing was 
intended to convey that I had ratcheted down my purview from 
describing how trust functions to the more narrow maintenance of 
trust in practical conversations, specifically one's I've had experience 
in.  I have nothing but my own experience in conversations to 
suggest that attributions of straw-man fallacies usually precipitate 
the end of good, honest discussions.  And that partly because, as 
you correctly perceive, if one has already decided that it is 
appropriate, the evasive, weasel-wordy behavior has already 
destroyed the trust between you and your main interlocutor, and 
you are trying to register to your audience ("for the record," as it 
were) why the discussion has ceased, from your point of view, to be 
honest and worthy of your attention.  

That being said, my "I still can't but think" reticence about straw-men 
fallacies comes from that fact that if they are premature, they raise 
the emotional stakes, as people don't like being accused of 
dishonesty.  It's hard for a conversation to recover from that.  The 
implied context I was thinking of was the MD, and as an on-going 
discussion, I'm thinking of the behavioral-social rules of thumb that 
would best lead to its maintenance.  

I agree that it would be wrong not to complain about dishonesty and 
insincerity.  The maintenance of truth has a hard time recovering if 
that is not done.  But I'm also worried about prematureness in 
complaint, as there are bells you can't unring.  Because we are 
fallible creatures, and because I have the maintenance good social 
relationships at the forefront of my attention, I commend delicacy 
more often than I do brutal sincerity.  As I said in the opening post, 
"Having an 'honest debate' does not mean saying what you sincerely 
think and feel at every stage of the discussion."  The "at every stage" 
caveat is important, and I said the whole bit because "Inquiry is 
_fundamentally_ held together by social relationships.  To not take 
your relationship with your interlocutors seriously is one way to 
breed mistrust."  _One way_.  I consider _premature_ accusations 
one of these ways.  If you are too consistently premature, if you too 
often jump to what in the end prove to be unwarranted conclusions, 
then people won't trust in general your conclusions, and take your 
accusations to be like "crying wolf."  Another way to destroy trust, 
of course however, is to be a wolf.

I don't want to be misunderstood here: social rules are different 
from management of truth.  There are wolves, and they should be 
called out as truly such.  But because statements of truth happen 
within social relationships, there must be some sensitivity to the 
social (if and only if one is concerned with maintaining it, of 
course).  The social situation you sketched out in your reply is too 
simple (primarily from the clause "it's not accusations of evasion 
that causes mistrust"): it seems to imply that each person is their 
own judge and executioner.  You see a crime, you execute 
punishment.  But that is not the social situation I see as actually 
working, and I want to sketch something closer to our actual legal 
situation, which between cop-judger/accuser and execution of 
sentence, there intervenes lawyers, judges, juries, and 
courtrooms.  The analogy is far from perfect, and that because 
real life maintenance of the social sphere represented by the 
courtroom in the analogy is _far_ more complex.

In this discussion of trust, I officially have no view of any of the 
particular battles and social relationships going on right now (I 
think you may have implied that I've intimated a view, or 
perhaps that I should (in your "apoplectic" comment)).  I am 
attempting to speak philosophically, which means the force of 
what I'm saying goes for everyone and is not polemically wielded 
at any particular one.  My philosophical views are of course 
informed by my actual experiences, but they are abstracted away 
from currently in order to talk about conceptual dynamics alone 
(e.g., "inquiry is fundamentally social") before moving back down 
to particular pieces of commendation (e.g., "I would suggest not 
even using the straw-man fallacy in the MD").  In this discussion of 
trust, I trust that everyone wants to be both honest and maintain 
themselves as trustworthy, and thereby makes their decisions 
about when to risk prematureness in honor of truth based on their 
own assessments of particular situations.  It is because we _have_ 
to trust each other to do those things that I commended "trying as 
hard as _you_ can to avoid a straw man.  You can't try for the other 
person, but you _can_ take care of yourself."

Matt                                      
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