Re: the current park board thread.

Members are reminded that our rules require discussions be of a
"substantive and respectful nature." We don't have any problems with
substance on the thread, but I do sense degrading respect.

I ask that all the combatants take a step back, resist using words like
"hate mail" and "slanderous." We often disagree - this is the place for
that - but here we have to do so respectfully. In conflict-ridden
threads such as these, resist extreme characterizations and labels - if
you have the facts on your side, the strength of your argument should be
enough.

Also, a reminder about list rule, #5, that states "One-on-one arguments,
disagreements, and disputes of a personal nature must be taken off
list."

Asking about a specific member's paycheck is a bit too close to a
personal attack, the sort of intimidation that keeps people from
participating

Generally, I ask that members try to address their issue-based remarks
to the forum, not to each other...that helps reduce nasty
personalization and avoid one-on-one disputes. If you want to invite
each other to coffee, facetiously or not, or check each others' pay
stubs, please have that conversation off-list. 

Finally, I encourage all members to take a spin through the rules if
they haven't done so recently: they're at
http://www.e-democracy.org/mpls.

Sincerely,
David Brauer
List manager


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