[Newbie]freebsd 4.4 and Xwindows

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I have installed FreeBSD 4.4 and I have installed Xwindows, went through the graphical config program setup my card, monitor, mouse etc.. go to the point where I got the congratulations you have correctly configured your server. I have installed kde and when the system starts up X  all I get is a cross hatch background and an X cursor. I do not get the kde boot up screen or the kde welcome message. I have started X from another workstation to see the boot screen while the gui is loading... and it gives no errors... does anyone have any idea?         Thanks           matt