> for trying to make people talk to each other in a more respectful and 
> professional way

This is a statement about your intentions behind making your post. My statement 
is about your post itself. The thread's about documentation. Did your post 
concern documentation? Your intentions were to encourage more professional 
speech. Was your post itself an example of professional speech? Did more 
professional speech occur as a result of your post?

How do you defend your post? "I wasn't even thinking of @jrfondren."

... you need more than good intentions to make a good post. I think the very 
first thing you need is a bare awareness that other people can also have good 
intentions even when they're not speaking like protagonist in a movie. The 
imaginary "anti-docs" faction in this thread are all well-intentioned. The rude 
people were not shills, paid by another language's OpenCollective fund, to come 
here and discourage a potential Nim contributor. And there's certainly nothing 
like this:

> I have the impression people here feel superior for using or creating Nim and 
> look at others as not worth having them in the boat.

I get it. I think Araq's slightly too mean on occasion, too. You can point that 
out when you observe it (this has happened), or you can use your disapproval as 
motivation to reply in a more helpful way to the person in question. You 
definitely shouldn't let these feelings simmer for a long time and then 
abruptly dump them on random people - very "superior" users of Nim, _every 
single poster in the discussion_ \- who were just talking about documentation.

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