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Muslim Student Influences Miss Porter's Experience 


Starts Club At School To Raise Awareness And Tolerance Of Different
Spiritual Paths 


By MELISSA PIONZIO, [email protected]

The Hartford Courant

8:36 AM EDT, May 22, 2011

FARMINGTON -


 


 

Since joining the Miss Porter's School student body as a sophomore last
year, Hibba Meraay has already made her mark.

Meraay, an American Muslim of Syrian-Palestine descent, dreams of becoming a
diplomat and helping promote peace in the Middle East. In her quiet yet
determined way, through several initiatives she helped implement at the
all-girl private school, the 16-year-old seems well on her way to achieving
her goal.

The school already "had some interfaith panels, conversations around
different faiths," said Meraay. "From those events came the idea of having
an actual club and raising awareness and to have more opportunity for
students."

The name of the spirituality club is Dehateha, which Meraay says is a Native
American word for enlightenment. The club raises awareness and promotes
tolerance of different spiritual paths and offers participants the chance to
learn about different beliefs. Movie nights, group discussions and other
events based on spirituality help further that goal, she said.

"I wanted to foster awareness and create a space where students could come
and have questions answered," said Meraay, who plans to expand club
activities outside the campus by arranging visits to houses of worship, such
as a mosque, Quaker meetinghouse or Hindu temple. "Although everyone is open
to other ideas and faiths, these visits will open the door to additional
experiences."

Meraay doesn't let opportunities pass her by. A lifelong resident of
Middletown, where she lives with her parents, sister and brother, she was
attending a summer program through the city's public school system when she
heard about A Better Chance. Founded in 1963, the organization helps
academically talented students of color in grades 6 to 12 gain access to
academically rigorous schools.

Meraay quickly realized A Better Chance could help further her goals, so she
applied and was accepted, leading to her acceptance at Miss Porter's. "They
were my support system to get me here," she said.

Meraay said she liked the idea of attending a preparatory school that would
challenge her academically, but was also looking for a supportive atmosphere
and a sense of community. She found it at Miss Porter's, she said.

"The best surprise I found about coming to Miss Porter's was not all about
academics, but the support I received and the continuing opportunities,"
said Meraay, whose brother Mohammed was recently selected as A Better Chance
scholar. "A lot of my work is focused around the idea of community service
and my mentality that I want to contribute to the atmosphere that has made
me who I am."

Laura Danforth, associate head of school at Miss Porter's, said she has
gotten to know Meraay very well through their daily conversations, and her
occational visits to the Meraay home for dinner. Meraay, said Danforth,
takes her learning very seriously, and is an extraordinary individual when
it comes to service work and raising awareness about diversity.

"I find Hibba is like an old soul. She is just such a thoughtful young
woman, very deliberate with her education and the decisions that she makes
about herself and her life," said Danforth. "In my 30 years in boarding
school life, she is just one of the most kind and considerate kids I know. I
think the teachers experience that as well and she is just highly respected
by her teachers and the students."

Although Miss Porter's has provided Meraay with plenty of new experiences,
including participation in crew, Model U.N. and the chance to mentor younger
girls at Hartford's Grace Academy, Meraay has her own gifts to share. In
addition to the spirituality club, she helped create a Zen Den where
students can mediate, pray and think. Through her work with the More Than Me
Foundation, she held a T-shirt fundraiser to help pay for the education of a
girl in Libya for one year.

"The slogan was 'Be a Woman,' " she said of the T-shirts. "There is always
the stereotypical view of being a man; Be a Woman is a way to represent
mutual bonding . and women helping one another in the positive light of
empowerment."

As the school year wanes and summer approaches, Meraay and her family are
preparing for a visit to Syria to see relatives. While there, she'll get
started on a documentary about her family heritage. She is curious, she
said, about life in Syria and wants to show through her project what life is
like in her family's homeland, which has become more complicated lately by
unrest, protests and violence.

"Living here, but also experienceing life in the East, I'm more interested
in the reality of it and how people live their day-to-day life," she said.
"There are misconceptions about life in the Middle East. I want to show a
glimpse into the real life of a Middle Eastern Muslim."

 

 



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