In a message dated 5/13/02 10:53:56 PM, [email protected] writes: << What I am trying to get at is: Is my facilitator mode in regards to
boundaries, limits etc. not only a marginal element? Or put differently, is that concern on these issues a leftover "control-control-control" part of me which is hard to process? >> Michael-- Anytime I find myself getting compulsive about an issue or element of a situation is probably a good time to talk to the part of myself that would like to take control of everything. As a facilitator, I am probably going to dance between appropriate (or not!) structure and unbounded spaciousness, whether or not that dance is needed or useful. Call it good professional practice or the ego demanding to have its own way. Sometimes, when my compulsiveness has run its course, I am more able to be totally open to whatever happens. It is a process of education that does not seem to be finished in one iteration. Joelle * * ========================================================== [email protected] ------------------------------ To subscribe, unsubscribe, change your options, view the archives of [email protected], Visit: http://listserv.boisestate.edu/archives/oslist.html
