I found the forceps story interesting - my sister has 4 children
her first delivered vaginally at 36weeks (P/E) But she delivered vaginally although she was a bit sick and baby was a nice little 5lb 13oz. - Now - Fine - super inteligent excellerated learning program etc.  Very smart girl.
Her second was delivered via forceps - f/t - has behaviour problems ADHD short term memory is very poor - learning difficulties. Very hard to handle girl.
Third - natural vaginal deliver f/t fine normal child - another lovely girl
Fourth - c/s after long labour CPD  He has speach difficulties.  A smart boy but is still at almost 7 hard to understand and has limited concentration/ communication skills.
 
Both natural almost unassisted deliveries have no problems - the forceps has most difficuties followed by the c/s.
 
there must be something in this.
 
Regards
Rhonda
 
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Date: Wednesday, November 06, 2002 17:04:14
Subject: [ozmidwifery] dimensions - violent birth
 
Thanks to whoever sent the transcript. 
 
I have since inundated the ABC dimensions with my comments and request for help to get the message across.
aaaaarrrrrrrrrrgggggghhhhhh!!!!!
 
Its just too much to bear sometimes.
 
Just yesterday, a fellow student and I were chatting after doing some work.   She has a 15 yr old.
Horrible, violent birth (the usual)  After about 18 months, she returned to the hospital to discuss what had happened to her.  That helped her a bit but she still grieves.   No more children followed.
 
In actual fact, I make it a point to know birth stories from every woman I know - (I should collect them for a book or something)
 
Oh and here's another.   Discussing NMAP, violent birth vs humanized birth etc. as usual with all and sundry....
one woman at work was listening so intently and I thought, "hello, there's something here".
On asking, it turned out that her third child, at full dilatation had cord prolapse.  Big emergency, she said.  Upside down and then hauled out with forceps.
She was advised my a very wise woman, to provide excess sensory stimulation to enable/create neurophysiological recovery caused by damage due to forceps.
Very thankful she did that, because as a toddler it helped him develop normally.
He's 18 now, but has a very 'dark' side. ie suicidal thoughts.
 
Liz Mc
 
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