There is a fantastic chapter in Ina May Gasgin's new book about vaginal
examinations. I would recommend that you find it and read. It really
give some great information and guidance about vaginal examinations.


Sally Westbury
Homebirth Midwife
 
"It takes courage to remain a true advocate for women, challenging
authority and sacrificing social and professional acceptance. It takes
courage for a woman to choose a caregiver who will truly advocate for
and empower her."    -Judy Slome Cohain

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Subject: [ozmidwifery] ve's

One of my strongest memories from my fourth son's birth was doing a VE
on myself whilst reclined on the toilet. I did it mainly because it was
my last oppurtunity to feel a dilating cervix. WOW it was amazing, but
it was mine to feel.

My first son was born in hospital where I had a few VE's, I did then
believe I needed to know how I was doing. Next 3 bubs born at home with
same Ind Midwife, no VE's by her. I did have a feel with my third son,
but by then his big beautiful head was working its way out.

When I touched my cervix and felt the circle that was about 4 cm, so
clearly and readable, it was amazing. How far dialted I was made no
difference, I was an hour into labour and an hour later I was holding my
baby boy, that was the measure of my progression.

How we dilate has become such a focus for birthing women and maybe more
so their carers, its become the yard stick of childbirth. I understand
why women think they want/need them, especially when birthing in an
environment of the unknown.
Sadly most Midwives are not able to work (for lots of reasons) in a
model of continuity and women are no doubt asking for Ve's as
inspiration or perhaps used with time as the marker to have the
intervention.
I also see women being told that they don't need to have VEs, but then
we expect them to birth with Mids/Obs who need to do them. It can get
very confusing for the birthing woman.
What do Midwives do in this circumstance and I assume that confidence in
understanding the dilation process is an advantage?
Which I think is was Stacey is asking?

Its questions like this that spread the wisdom learnt, not one teacher
but many,
cheers
Megan R

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