Lieve
My heart goes out to you as it must be a
painful and disappointing position to be in with your colleagues. I
presume you have presented them with the evidence of the risks of infection and
the appropriate measures to take. Do you have an ethics policy that you
work by as midwives? To judge someone so harshly for their previous
behaviour does not seem to be a compassionate way to care. I understand
that you are probably in your own private practise and so there is no obligation
to provide care. Do you think it is only because of the infection risks
that they are upset or are their other issues such as her behaviour, personality
etc that are being judged. You are in a difficult position and I
guess that you need to give them as much information as possible and also
be able to discuss calmly with them about their fears. I would find it
hard to stay calm and I guess you would be feeling pretty upset with them.
Maybe you could also talk about why they are so angry - are they really that
sure that you are putting their health at risk or do they not approve of
this type of client, or maybe it has to do with other issues in your
practise that have not been dealt with. I and I think many Australian
midwives would find this situation difficult to understand as most of
us work in the public system and so have no say about who our clients
are. We care for whoever needs it. I think also that we identify
strongly with the origins of midwife which is to be "with women". I
understand that the literal meaning of vroedvrouw is wise woman (the best
name for a midwife I have heard yet). Can you appeal to their
wisdom? Ultimately you will make a decision. It is important to give
them space to really listen to them and hear what they are also trying to tell
you - is there something that they are concerned about that you haven't really
heard? Also a bit of time can make the world of difference - perhaps
giving them time to digest information before a final decision is made. If
they will not provide care is there the option that you could care for her in a
one to one manner? My best wishes to you.
Maxine
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