My advice - think hard about what is happening in his life, listen
hard to what YOU feel is right and remember that things change with
time. This will pass. Waking up often won't hurt him.
Vedrana
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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Kelly @
BellyBelly
Sent: Monday, October 17, 2005 6:24 AM
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Infant Sleep
Jo,
I hear you!!! My first born was a very wakeful sleeper and my second has
been waking often from four months - every time he is teething (i.e.
now!)
he gets worse. I know lots of mums that have wakeful babies at four
months
of age - so please don't feel alone!
You've really got to follow what works for you and ignore all the
conflicting advice - adopt only the bits which work for you, because
as you
will know, what works for one won't necessarily work for the other. A
friend
of mine desperately wanted to co-sleep with her baby but to this day at
nearly four years of age, she still wants to sleep on her own, in her
bedroom, with the light off and door shut! Much to mums dismay!
Pinky will no doubt have some great advice for you but I can
recommend her
book, 100 Ways to Calm the Crying and also a fantastic book
recommended to
me by my birth teacher, Rhea Dempsey, "The Wonder Weeks" by Frans X.
Plooij
& Hetty Vanderijt - two paeds. Here is the book blurb:
In The Wonder Weeks, you'll discover the specific dates during their
first
14 months when all babies take eight major developmental leaps. And
you'll
learn how to help your baby through the eight great "fussy phases"
that mark
these leaps within a week or two. Wonder week by wonder week, you'll
see how
your baby's mind is developing. Now you will know which games and
toys are
best for your baby during each key week and how to encourage each leap
forward. Calendars, charts, and checklists help you track your baby's
progress - and finally make sense of his fussy behavior. This is a
baby book
like no other. It will be your indispensable guide to the crucial
"wonder
weeks" of your baby's first year.
Remember... this too will pass... :)
Best Regards,
Kelly Zantey
Director, www.bellybelly.com.au & www.toys4tikes.com.au
Gentle Solutions For Conception, Pregnancy, Birth & Baby
Australian Little Tikes Specialists
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[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of JoFromOz
Sent: Monday, 17 October 2005 1:57 PM
To: ozmidwifery@acegraphics.com.au
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Infant Sleep
Hi All...
Just wondering if any of you have any thoughts on this Q/A:
http://www.awareparenting.com/answer13.htm
The question seems to relate strongly to our situation at the moment.
Will is waking VERY often over night. He only seems to need feeding
twice, as the other times he just semi-wakes and cries, and needs
rewrapping, and dummy back in. I counted 18 awakenings the other night,
and I think the number came close last night. This happens whether
co-sleeping or puting him in his cot in our room. He seems to go to
sleep quite easily, but doesn't stay asleep.
The answer suggests not giving the dummy for sleep, but letting baby
cry-it-out, only in your arms. It says that babies need this crying
time to release stress of the day and once it's gone, they will sleep
well (until they're hungry, of course). If they don't get this crying
time, because the parents use rocking, dummy, wrapping, whatever to calm
them, then they need to wake often to cry, and try to release the
stress.
It's all so confusing! I hate the idea of letting him cry, whether I'm
holding him or not, especially when it's so easily fixed!
Thanks for listening!
Jo (Mum to Will, 4.5 months old)
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