> > >I'll confess I find it difficult to look at her, I should be lying if I > did not. > > >annsan > > Okay, I'll add one thing, because I finally figured out how to word it, > annsan. > > By trying to "protect" her you are coming from the place that she NEEDS > protection. I.E. That there is something "wrong" with her, something defective, > something less than, something disabled, or maybe something even obscene, in a > sense. > > Get it? Lots of people don't like other people protecting them, because of > the downside implication of that protection.
Your being just as presumptive yourself, you know, by arguing that she shouldn't be protected. You don't know what she wants, any more than I do. It's her body - the decision to display it should be her decision. Anyone else attempting to speak for her, on either side, is just grandstanding.

