Shel Belinkoff wrote: > > Which party is being subservient? Or is either? Can you > have subservience if all involved see the situation > similarly, feel the same way, share the same feelings? Is > subservience then just a game that's being played with no > real subjugation by either party?
The first two questions are part of the conundrum of the picture. To three, the answer is yes. The parameters do not preclude one party deciding that it is better to deny one's own desires. Following on, the answer to four must be no, given that the subjugation is performed on oneself. The above assuming a real situation rather than a deliberate role playing scenario. m
