Interspersed

> [Original Message]
> From: skye 

> > Am I obligated not to show anyone the other pics?  What about the one
she
> > saw and didn't want me to show?

> Pardon me for saying so, but it kind of sounds like you're asking for
> an excuse to do the opposite of what your acquaintance wants you to
> do. 

You don't know why I'm asking, or what my intention is, so please hold your
judgement.


> You're certainly under no obligation to do what she wants,
> however, it would be disrespectful not to follow her wishes in that
> regard. 

Thank you for your opinion.

 > It's up to you and only you, whether or not you want to be
>  considerate.

Yes, I know that it's up to me ... I'm asking because of some comments made
in another thread.


> As for the other pics, if they are similar to the one she didn't like
> (i.e. if you take duplicate shots in order to bracket exposure, or
> ensure she doesn't have her eyes closed), I would err on the safe side
> and assume she doesn't want you to publish any of them. Again, you're
> under no obligation to follow her orders.

They're similar, but don't contain the aspect to which she was objecting.


> I think people who don't want a perfectly good photo (assuming fully
> clothed, not picking her nose, etc) to be "shown" are just a bit silly
> in this day and age. But that's only my opinion. Certainly I've had a
> friend tell me not to show a photo that made her butt look big, and
> I've respected that even though it looks the same in the photo as it
> does in real life and if she doesn't want people to see it she should
> stay home.

Some people are very self conscious, or don't like to be reminded of what
they perceive as flaws.  Some people don't even like to be photographed. 

shel



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