In a message dated 11/2/2005 9:04:21 AM Pacific Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
I think the importance of the description is that it clarifies who 
thinks the lady is useless. Without it, and without knowing Marnie, a 
viewer might draw the awful and incorrect conclusion that "useless" is 
the photographer's perception of the subject, not the subject's 
perception of herself.

ERNR
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Thanks. That is exactly why I included a description. When I asked Mom about 
it, describing the theme as useless, she first reacted that I meant she was 
useless. I had to explain it was about her feeling useless -- which she got. So 
I didn't want anyone else doing the same thing.

One thing for her to feel that, another for me to imply I feel that.

Also I included the bit about not being able to sort anymore to maybe 
increase one's understanding of dementia. I am not sure everyone realizes that 
that 
goes too. A lot may know that the ability to read goes (to make sense out of 
the letters, putting them together into words, although the person may still be 
able to do small, short words), but not that the ability to sort goes also.

It first starts with being unable to distinguish between white objects (did 
some research and found that was fairly common). Dementia not only affects 
memory it also starts affecting higher level cognitive functions. I wasn't 
really 
aware myself, until it started happening, that sorting was a higher level 
cognitive function. But think about it, tons of work depends on sorting. Filing 
in 
an office, sorting out a sock drawer, folding laundry, most paper work in an 
office, doing one's taxes, looking at old photos, filing old letters, well, 
the list is endless. So if you can't sort anymore you can't do much anymore. 
You 
can get along without reading if you have to, but you cannot get along 
without the ability to sort.

Thanks again. (I am sure in scientific circles it's got a fancier name.)

Marnie aka Doe :-)

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