> On 22 Jul 2016, at 11:32, Dracony <draconys...@gmail.com> wrote: > > I honestly am trying to be constructive, just adding some humor to it. The > thing is the only plausible reply from Paul that would end this thread is > some sort of a "Im sorry" statement, which considering it hasn't happened, > yet, is not really coming at all. If anything I can bet he's not even > reading this thread anymore, since there is no point for him really, the vote > wouldn't pass anyway. Actually engaging in the discussion here would not only > be both stressful and time consuming for him, but also might angry some > people further shaking his current winning position. Basically this thread is > akin to giving siedge to an empty castle where the king has already left. > > The only constructive end to this discussion is for the people to realize > that Paul has a right to behave anyway he likes, and that he does have quite > a lot of supporters here. And so, since they cannot force him to behave their > way it is they who have to deal with him. This again is the "get a thicker > skin" argument that people have been opposing in this thread, but honestly it > is the only way.
There is room for gray areas here too. f.e. Paul can acknowledge that he is willing to work towards adjusting his communication style not because he feels “sorry” but because he feels it would make communication more efficient within this group. BTW of course those who initiated the thread can of course also decide to adjust the way they “parse” Paul’s messages. Fundamentally I doubt that Paul gets up in the morning pondering how to make the lives of other FIG members hell. And I doubt that those FIG members get up in the morning planning how they can humiliate Paul in public. So if we all can work on this basis, its not about saying sorry so much, than about taking steps towards each other to work better together in the future. regards, Lukas Kahwe Smith sm...@pooteeweet.org -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "PHP Framework Interoperability Group" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to php-fig+unsubscr...@googlegroups.com. To post to this group, send email to php-fig@googlegroups.com. To view this discussion on the web visit https://groups.google.com/d/msgid/php-fig/0FE38C52-9BCF-481E-A482-21CA8C521583%40pooteeweet.org. For more options, visit https://groups.google.com/d/optout.
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