[PLUG] question on ethernet couplers

[American Citizen]

Hello:

I am using the standard ethernet connector, with two ethernet cables, 
which have the RJ45 plug.

Here's the problem, after about 200 plugs/unplugs into the coupler, the 
plastic tab wears out, the cable no longer stays in the coupler and I am 
forced to buy another brand new ethernet cable.

Has anyone found a better coupler that doesn't wear out the ethernet 
cable RJ45 plug?

I did a quick look on my DuckDuckGo search engines and dozens of 
manufacturers want to sell you the same type of coupler (which wears out 
the cable plug tab)

Thanks for coming up with a way to avoid this. And yes, I do need to 
plug and unplug the cable scores of times

Randall