salam cinta, banyak diantara cewek2 yang sudah lanjut usia (katakanlah 25 keatas) itu merasa gundah bila belum menikah. Hal ini wajar saja sebab semakin tua, maka peluang utk menikah itu mungkin menurut si cewek yg bersangkutan akan semakin kecil. Beda dengan cowok, meskipun sudah berkepala 3, tapi untuk manaiki pelaminan itu terasa berat dan takut lho. Akhirnya kadang-kadang ada yang lebih memilih untuk hidup membujang saja. (izam)
Ehm...pendapat-mu itu mungkin bisa diterima pada era 70an-80an- mungkin 90an masih ada. Jumlah pria skrg jauh lebih banyak ketimbang perempuan dan bukan berarti peluang perempuan kecil. Kini, perempuan tidak lagi merasa khawatir membujang, tentu saja bila dia telah memiliki apa yang diinginkannya, kecuali ya satu hal itu (laki-laki). Perempuan2 seperti itu tidak lagi merasa takut hidup sendiri, kecuali mereka2 yg berada di strata bawah (maaf). Dan sebenarnya hal ini tidak berbeda jauh dengan kaum lelaki. Hanya saja, sedikit yang mau mengakui hal itu.... Soal malam pertama, ehm, ku kira kau terlalu merendah! Wassalam, id --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], "Zamhasari Jamil" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Salam, > > Dalam pengamatan saya bahwa banyak diantara cewek2 yang sudah lanjut > usia (katakanlah 25 keatas) itu merasa gundah bila belum menikah. Hal > ini wajar saja sebab semakin tua, maka peluang utk menikah itu > mungkin menurut si cewek yg bersangkutan akan semakin kecil. > > Beda dengan cowok, meskipun sudah berkepala 3, tapi untuk manaiki > pelaminan itu terasa berat dan takut lho. Akhirnya kadang-kadang ada > yang lebih memilih untuk hidup membujang saja. Yg jelas, untung aja > senior-senior saya di India ini udah pada menikah semua. Kalau tidak > bisa-bisa bawaan suka membujang itu juga menurunkan kepada kami- kami > yang masih baru, 3 tahun di india ini. Adakah yang berubah dg > Indonesia dlm kurun waktu 3 thn ini? > > Sayapu sebenarnya juga takut untuk menikah, tapi sebelum si dia > digebet ama org lain, maka tak apalah bila aku harus memberanikan > diri. Mau menikah, ngeri ah......ngeri.. ngeri nggak kebayang malam- > malam baru pernikahan itu. hehehehe. > > Wassalam, > > IzaM > > --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED], "Listy" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > > Too true...... - about women > > > > A young wife sat on a sofa in Bukit Timah on a hot > > > humid day, drinking > > > iced tea and visiting with her Mother. > > > > > > > > > > > > As they talked about life, about marriage, about the > > > responsibilities of > > > life and the obligations of adulthood, the mother > > > clinked the ice cubes > > > in her glass thoughtfully and turned a clear, sober > > > glance upon her > > > daughter, > > > > > > > > > > > > "Don't forget your girlfriends," she advised, > > > swirling the tea leaves to > > > the bottom of her glass. "They'll be more important > > > as you get older, No > > > matter how much you love your husband, no matter how > > > much you love the > > > children you'll have, you are still going to need > > > girlfriends. Remember > > > to go places with them now and then; do things with > > > them. And remember > > > that "girlfriends" are not only your friends, but > > > your sisters, your > > > daughters, and other relatives too. You'll need > > > other women. Women > > > always do." > > > > > > 'What a funny piece of advice,' the young woman > > > thought. 'Haven't I just > > > gotten married? Haven't I just joined the > > > couple-world? I'm now a > > > married woman for goodness sake, a grownup, not a > > > young girl who needs > > > girlfriends! Surely my husband and the family we'll > > > start will be all I > > > need to make my life worthwhile!' > > > > > > But she listened to her Mother; she kept contact > > > with her girlfriends > > > and made more each year. As the years tumbled by, > > > one after another, she > > > gradually came to understand that her Mom really > > > knew what she was > > > talking about. As time and nature work their changes > > > and their mysteries > > > upon a woman, girlfriends are the mainstays of her > > > life. > > > > > > After 50 years of living in this world, here is what > > > I've learned: > > > > > > Times passes. Life happens. Distance separates. > > > Children grow up. Love > > > waxes and wanes. Hearts break. Careers end. Jobs > > > come and go. Parents > > > die. Colleagues forget favours. Men don't call when > > > they say they > > > will... > > > > > > BUT girlfriends are there, no matter how much time > > > and how many miles > > > are between you, A girlfriend is never farther away > > > than needing her can > > > reach. When you have to walk that lonesome valley, > > > and you have to walk > > > it for yourself, your girlfriends will be on the > > > valley's rim, cheering > > > you on, praying for you, pulling for you, > > > intervening on your behalf, > > > and waiting with open arms at the valley's end. > > > Sometimes, they will > > > even break the rules and walk beside you. Or come in > > > and carry you out. > > > > > > My daughter, sisters, mother, sisters-in-law, > > > mother-in-law, aunties, > > > nieces, cousins, extended family, and friends bless > > > my life! > > > The world wouldn't be the same without them, and > > > neither would I. When > > > we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no > > > idea of the > > > incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did > > > we know how much we > > > would need each other. Every day, we need each other > > > still. > > > > > > Pass this on to the women who help make your life > > > work. I just did. ------------------------ Yahoo! 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