poligamy is nothing but lust only.., there no such thing like win-win
solution.., if every men agree with poligamy..married or single men.., buat
apa komitmen.., utk perempuan komitment with such a men..it will be
disastrous..,btw..kalo win win solution..perempuan jg bisa bersuami bnyk
donk..that's what i called fair..
RG Nur Rahmat
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ppiindia
tapi manusia selain nafsu ada juga emosi dan akal.
Mungkin juga berpoligami karena masih sayang terhadap pacar yg lama? atau
kasihan karena masih sendirian, etc. nah ke-3 faktor ini bisa bermain.
Coba saja tanya suami anda jika dia melihat wanita seksi, apakah dia suka,
sebagai lelaki tentu dia akan jawab suka. Tapi kalau mempertimbangkan
cinta, penerimaan keluarga, keuangan, dsb, belum tentu dia mau berpoligami.
Dan, sekarang berapa persen dari seluruh umat Islam yg berpoligami ? sangat
kcil, jgnkan di Indonesia, di Arab saja juga kecil.
Lagipun ada syarat-syaratnya, jadi ini win-win solution.
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so that's the main argument.let me put it this way.., bcs of men
uncontrolled lust for women..they just dont get enough for only one
women..they have 2 option..having affair or poligamy..,right? so a loyal
and faithfull husband re only a dream that exist in ''alice
wonderland''...?
RG Nur Rahmat
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10/12/2004 01:53 Menghalalkan
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ppiindia
Lebih sakit mana jika si bapak simpan isteri muda atau punya anak diluar
nikah? Atau malah si bapak lari dengan perempuan yg lebih muda?
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realitanya..poligamy itu merugikan perempuan.., menyakitkan bagi
anak-anaknya,..mau dipoles dengan kata2 sedemikian bagus ato indahnya..,
berbicara soal tanggung jawab..itu ironis.., mungkin kalo tg jwb materi
bisa tp bgmn dengan tg jwb hati..?
man..come on.., it's impossible..
Carla
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