Kalo mau poliandri demi menuntut persamaan hak dari pandangan Mbak Carla, maka pendapat pribadi saya : Monggo...silahkan. Itung2 eksperimen. Mohon nanti direport apa2 saja keuntungan dan kerugiannya bagi perempuan, terus silahkan tarik kesimpulan sendiri. Yang jelas, praktek ini dilarang dalam Islam.
----- Original Message ----- From: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Tuesday, October 12, 2004 2:25 PM Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: Mengharamkan Poligami dan Menghalalkan > > > poligamy is nothing but lust only.., there no such thing like win-win > solution.., if every men agree with poligamy..married or single men.., buat > apa komitmen.., utk perempuan komitment with such a men..it will be > disastrous..,btw..kalo win win solution..perempuan jg bisa bersuami bnyk > donk..that's what i called fair.. > > > > > RG Nur Rahmat > <[EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > o.com> cc: > Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: Mengharamkan Poligami dan > 10/12/2004 02:14 Menghalalkan > PM > Please respond to > ppiindia > > > > > > > > tapi manusia selain nafsu ada juga emosi dan akal. > Mungkin juga berpoligami karena masih sayang terhadap pacar yg lama? atau > kasihan karena masih sendirian, etc. nah ke-3 faktor ini bisa bermain. > > Coba saja tanya suami anda jika dia melihat wanita seksi, apakah dia suka, > sebagai lelaki tentu dia akan jawab suka. Tapi kalau mempertimbangkan > cinta, penerimaan keluarga, keuangan, dsb, belum tentu dia mau berpoligami. > > Dan, sekarang berapa persen dari seluruh umat Islam yg berpoligami ? sangat > kcil, jgnkan di Indonesia, di Arab saja juga kecil. > > Lagipun ada syarat-syaratnya, jadi ini win-win solution. > > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > > > so that's the main argument.let me put it this way.., bcs of men > uncontrolled lust for women..they just dont get enough for only one > women..they have 2 option..having affair or poligamy..,right? so a loyal > and faithfull husband re only a dream that exist in ''alice > wonderland''...? > > > > RG Nur Rahmat > o.com> cc: > Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: Mengharamkan Poligami dan > 10/12/2004 01:53 Menghalalkan > PM > Please respond to > ppiindia > > > > > > > > Lebih sakit mana jika si bapak simpan isteri muda atau punya anak diluar > nikah? Atau malah si bapak lari dengan perempuan yg lebih muda? > > [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: > realitanya..poligamy itu merugikan perempuan.., menyakitkan bagi > anak-anaknya,..mau dipoles dengan kata2 sedemikian bagus ato indahnya.., > berbicara soal tanggung jawab..itu ironis.., mungkin kalo tg jwb materi > bisa tp bgmn dengan tg jwb hati..? > man..come on.., it's impossible.. > > > Carla > > > > > > > *************************************************************************** > Berdikusi dg Santun & Elegan, dg Semangat Persahabatan. Menuju Indonesia yg > Lebih Baik, in Commonality & Shared Destiny. www.ppiindia.shyper.com > *************************************************************************** > __________________________________________________________________________ > Mohon Perhatian: > > 1. Harap tdk. memposting/reply yg menyinggung SARA (kecuali sbg otokritik) > 2. Pesan yg akan direply harap dihapus, kecuali yg akan dikomentari. > 3. 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