Bila polygami itu menyebabkan rusaknya sebuah perkawinan, itu namanya polygaminya gak berhasil...atau bahkan bukan poligamy namanya...he...he...
--- In [email protected], Carla Annamarie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > referrred to ur statement below regarding polygami..it clearly and > resolutely stated in Q'uran that men shall be allowed to marry more than > one women, but u definitely know that in reality polygami may or shall > destroy marriage.., i think it's a dead-end.., > as i could say marriage is for once..and it's until death do apart...and > it's stipulated in the heart of every men that had made a vow before > God..that he shall pledge his love and life for only one women....that vow > is his honor... > > i rest my case... > > > > > farid bajber > <[EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [email protected] > m> cc: > Sent by: Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: Mengharamkan Poligami, > [EMAIL PROTECTED] Melindungi Perzinahan > ups.com > > > 05/04/2005 06:10 > PM > Please respond to > ppiindia > > > > > > > ..quite agree with the view that for some reasons, polygamy may destroy > marriage...i didnt say anything abt it...but anyhow it has been clearly > stipulated, both in holy book qur'an or hadist, that is a legal > practise...can't we abolish or refute it?. we should respect religious > stipulations, shoudn't we? ....if men are supposed to be civilised in our > sexual needs (wife), why we could not be committed to our religion?. which > is the holy guidance, wives or religion? > > FB > > > > Carla Annamarie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > is it ur best defence or perhaps a plea..:)).. > it's a undeniable fact that when it comes to sex matters..men is the > predator.., im not talking bias.., for example u cant denied a men's > biological system here..,rite? when u re talking abt sex..especially.. > anyway, i agree when it takes two ppl to conduct sex..bcs it need two to > tango..:))..but i dont blame men for having such a overcapacity or > consumptive desire.., but after married men should be more civilised > concerning sexual needs bcs their needs is fulfilled by their wifes..so > having affairs or polygamy is out of question..., if men re still > single..he doesnt have obligation except to God and himself abt what he > wants to do with his body and his life..but when men got married he has > responsibility to his wife for every thing he does..bcs it's married all > abt..,rite? > btw...i think gay or lesbians issue has nothing gonna do with the subject > of discussion here..brought it up seems bias.. > > > > > farid bajber > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED] To: > [email protected] > m> cc: > > Sent by: Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: > Mengharamkan Poligami, > [EMAIL PROTECTED] Melindungi Perzinahan > > ups.com > > > > 05/04/2005 05:19 > > PM > > Please respond to > > ppiindia > > > > > > > > Dear Madame Annamarie, (...panjang bener nich nama yach?) > > that's not true, mam....klo u r sttment seperti itu, u r not fair, too > bias. in fact, female desire is bigger than that is of male. u can't blame > of prostitution on male only. no way mam!! a study has revealed that in > some western countries that the lesbians outnumber homos. so, who are > desparately seeking for fulfilment of their desire then?. > > FB > > Carla Annamarie <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > actually pak Samudjo gak binun..cuman gak mo trima kenyataanya aja > kali..:))..joking neh:)).. > btw "desire" is humane..actually is a blessing.., ppl without desire is > really pathetic..no passions means no life at all... > klo udah married kan mestinya udah punya "wadah" for communicating > ,expressing, conducting, sharing "desire"..., pernikahan just for two > ppl..kalo udah more than two means adultery..., so klo org polygamy ..means > overcapacity..or consumptive neh..:)).. > but the answer is simply.." men's cant live without sex.." or perhaps kalo > lebih rinci lagi men's is sex's slave or men's life depends on it..for > example every day..how many times men's visualize or imagine the images of > sex..? i think more than hundreds..even some ppl thousands of times.. > > > > > "Samudjo" > > <[EMAIL PROTECTED] To: > <[email protected]> > .com> cc: > > Sent by: Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: > Mengharamkan Poligami, > [EMAIL PROTECTED] Melindungi Perzinahan > > ups.com > > > > 05/04/2005 03:55 > > PM > > Please respond to > > ppiindia > > > > > > > > Saya sendiri binun gimana yah ? > Tertulisnya seperti itu sih, > samudjo > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "Carla Annamarie" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > To: <[email protected]> > Sent: Wednesday, May 04, 2005 1:30 PM > Subject: Re: [ppiindia] Re: Mengharamkan Poligami, Melindungi Perzinahan > > > > > > Memang sih timbulnya arus sekuler khan karena mereka muak > > dengan perilaku munafik kaum santri > > Betul mbak Carla, itu namanya cheating > > yang dilarang kan "mendekati zina" > > Jadi motifnya tidak boleh karena "desire" > > > > > pak samudjo..flirting is cheating..cheating is the beginning of > > adultery.., klo diliat dari kronologis, mekanisme, dan proses..semua itu > > adalah satu kesatuan..., gak mungkin orang selingkuh/polygamy gak da > motif > > "desire'..come on..:))..re u kidding me..:))..i think men knows > > better..:)).. > > > > > > > > DISCLAIMER: The information contained in this communication is intended > solely for the use of the individual or entity to whom it is addressed and > others authorized to receive it. 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