Mbak Aris ini cukup tangguh dan tdk perlu dikasihani! Komentarnya pun cukup dewasa dan tdk didominasi oleh luapan emosi. I may not always agree with her but I admire her tough-mindedness and also her honesty when she expresses herself!
Ari Condro <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: kasian sekali mbak aris ... kalian kakak kakak pada jahat jahat ah .. sini sini, ditaktir minum dulu , biar lega ... On 05-Jul-2006 08:16:37 ZE7, Carla Annamarie < [EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > > > pak.. > > mungkin aja banyak wanita muslim yang merasa bangga dan terangkat > derajatnya karena bisa "kawin sesaat" dengan orang2 arab atau menurut > orang > arab berwisata sex... apalagi mayoritas orang fundies di indo sangat > mengagung2kan orang2 arab... > > btw mba aris..gimana tanggapannya..? pastinya setuju dunk..., mba > berwisata > sex seperti itu termasuk di syariatkan gak..? > > "Kartono Mohamad" > <[EMAIL PROTECTED] <kmjp47%40indosat.n> > et.id> To > Sent by: <[email protected] <ppiindia%40yahoogroups.com>>, > [EMAIL PROTECTED] <[EMAIL PROTECTED]<partai-islam%40yahoogroups.com>>, > > ups.com <[email protected]<wanita-muslimah%40yahoogroups.com>> > > cc > > 07/05/2006 07:26 Subject > AM Re: [ppiindia] Fwd: [mediacare] > > 'Marriage gangs' prey on youths > > Please respond to > [EMAIL PROTECTED] > ups.com > > > > > Seharusnya tulisan ini juga diteruskan ke milis partai-islam dan > wanita_muslimah. > KM > -------Original Message------- > > From: [email protected] <ppiindia%40yahoogroups.com> > Date: 07/03/06 14:42:06 > To: [email protected] <ppiindia%40yahoogroups.com> > Subject: [ppiindia] Fwd: [mediacare] 'Marriage gangs' prey on youths > > dari milis mediacare > > aris, bagaimana para pengusung syariat islam > melihat masalah ini? > > si penulis, seorang wartawati arab, menyoroti kebiasaan > laki-laki arab teluk berwisata sex dengan cara kawin > kontrak ke negara-negara berbiaya hidup rendah, > terutama indonesia. > > >Published: 06/16/2006 12:00 AM (UAE) > > > >'Marriage gangs' prey on youths > >By Mariam Al Hakeem, Correspondent > > > >Riyadh: With the beginning of the summer holidays, a > >large number of Arabs, especially from the Gulf > >states, are travelling to tourist destinations in > >various parts of the world, especially in the Far > >East, looking to > >enjoy themselves and relax. > > > >Most of them want to enjoy their holidays in > >picturesque places, visiting historical monuments and > >taking in the culture. > > > >Some of them, however, will want to take advantage of > >the opportunity to try out temporary marriages. They > >prefer Indonesia over other countries, mainly > >because of the low cost of living there. > > > >This has resulted in the mushrooming of marriage > >bureaus in Jakarta and other major Indonesian cities > >in recent years. > > > >Organised gangs have also grown up who prey on Arab > >tourists and try to lure them with promises of > >low-cost marriages and then cheating them. > > > >Several Saudi youths, who became prey to these gangs, > >shared their bitter experiences with Gulf News. > > > >They were lured by the false promises of the gang > >members of "marriages to beautiful young women under > >18 at cheap rates." > > > >In most cases, their brides abandoned them and ran > >away within few days of the marriage. > > > >When they then contacted the marriage bureaus, the > >employees washed their hands of blame saying that it > >was not their responsibility to ensure that > >their brides stayed with them. > > > >According to the youths, who declined to be named, > >marriage 'mafias' are common in Jakarta, and their > >activities pivot mainly around places that Arabs > >frequent. > > > >The gang members introduce themselves as > >representatives of licensed marriage bureaus and offer > >marriage proposals. > > > >The marriage ceremonies are then held at marriage > >bureaus in the presence of a licensed marriage notary > >and two witnesses. The dowry normally ranges > >between two to three million Indonesian Rupiah > >(Dh1,000-1,500). > > > >One of the Saudi youths, who was cheated by the gangs, > >told Gulf News: > >"While I was taking my meals at an Arab restaurant in > >Jakarta, I heard some young men asking whether anybody > >wanted to get married to beautiful young girls. I did > >not pay any attention to them in the beginning. > > > >"When they repeated the offer for the third time, I > >was interested and expressed my willingness. > > > >"They then took me to a marriage bureau and I was > >introduced to a man called Haider. > > > >"After a short while, Haider paraded five young women > >in front of me and asked me to select one. When I had > >chosen one of them and agreed on a dowry > >of four million rupiah (Dh1,468), the marriage notary > >appeared with witnesses and solemnised the marriage > >ceremony," he said. > > > >"When I took my bride to a nearby hotel, she was > >clearly bewildered. > >While I was trying to be friendly with her, she asked > >me if she could go out to the nearby pharmacy to buy > >some medicine and I agreed not knowing that she would > >never return," the young man said. > > > >The same was the case with another Saudi youth but > >with a slight difference. He went to the marriage > >bureau and told the story of his wife's disappearance. > > > >The bureau staff members promised to help him find > >her. On leaving the building, he saw his bride going > >into the same office in the company of some other > >girls in order to be paraded in front of the new > >"victims". > > > >When he tried to stop her, the security guards held > >him and the door was slammed shut. > > > >Some of the Saudi victims managed to lodge complaints > >with the police. > > > >A policeman was sent with the youths to the marriage > >bureau in search of Haider but the police could not > >trace him and the staff at the bureau told the police > >that he was not "in sight". > > > >http://www.gulfnews.com/region/Saudi_Arabia/10047310.html > > [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] > > > *************************************************************************** > Berdikusi dg Santun & Elegan, dg Semangat Persahabatan. 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