http://afeministblog.blogspot.com/2008/02/gender-equality.html
   
  I am oftentimes bothered when finding well-educated people don’t understand 
the importance of gender equality in social life, for both sexes betterment, 
not only for women, but also for men. To me, this kind of well-educated people 
are people who limit their own interpretation of what a woman is born for; 
people who let themselves ‘blinded’ by their narrow-minded interpretation of 
their religious teachings, as well as the narrow-minded understanding of what a 
culture is.
One of its examples is when I read an article in one local tabloid. The article 
was about a profile of a woman who has been busy in social organizations in 
Central Java. She said that gender equality does not necessarily mean the equal 
number. It means that she criticized the affirmative action given to women in 
politic sphere. Women do not need affirmative action to show that they are as 
capable as men. Furthermore, she said that gender equality clashed religious 
teachings as well as Indonesian culture.
Unfortunately the article didn’t give thorough explanation of that woman what 
she meant by saying that the success of gender equality does not automatically 
result in the more number of women involved in public sphere. Therefore, I had 
to use my interpretation when reading such a limited accusation, “gender 
equality is a failure if the success of it lies in the quantity”.
To know my opinion on feminism (gender equality means feminist movement), read 
my previous post on “Feminism: a western culture?”
I am of opinion that it is necessary to give affirmative action to show that 
they are as capable as men in politics due to the fact that women have had 
limit access to politics because they have been considered incapable. Why 
incapable? Because they have been considered as domestic creatures so that 
their main duty is to take care of children and husbands. Take a look at the 
example of the number of students for vocational schools. Many vocational 
schools offering the skills to cook, to sew, and recently including for makeup 
have been full of female students. On the other hand, vocational schools 
offering the skills for machines, electricity, etc have been full of male 
students. Besides, one thing we cannot deny is that parents give sons more 
priority to continue their education than daughters when they have financial 
constraints, without trying to analyze who has a higher intellect. 
Because women have been imprisoned in domestic sphere, they have had limited 
experience in public sphere. 
So, how to find out that women are also as capable as men in public sphere, 
especially in politics? Give them a chance to show their capability. How? Give 
them affirmative action. Don’t limit them only as domestic creatures. 
Women are human beings, and not just the second sex. It means that they have 
full right to make a choice in their life, without any limitation based on 
religious teachings or the so-called cultures. They are free to choose 
1. to be single, or married. 
2. to be a full housewife or have career outside home
3. to be a full mother or a part time mother because they want to have career 
outside home
4. to be single parent when they don’t find any man suitable with their way of 
life
5. not to have a baby or to be a breeder
6. to work in public as well as domestic sphere
7. to be lesbian or straight
8. including to be a superwoman who is willing to fulfill their religious 
teaching requirement (read => to get married, having kids, be a super wife as 
well as mother, not to mention as money maker too, without forgetting her ‘main 
duty’ as the servant of their husband and children)
Once again, women are free to choose which suits their interest, without any 
burden in following religious teachings or cultures. Treat women as adult and 
human beings and then ask them to be responsible with their choices.
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