>That was one 'reality' given in exchange for the gentleman's 'reality'. The ladys advice not to ask for receipts, etc. is >really a desire for lack of accountability... meaning you stuck her with the kids, she's entitle to whatever she can get >out of you.
My advice was for his own sake and the happiness of his children not for accountability. If he wants receitps then ask for them but be real and comprehensive don't count every cent and expect the money be divided 50/50 only on the children and worry and fight every day of your life, that is not a good way to live. Obviously, if the money is being spent on something that is really not for the children then ask for an explanation. If he got the divorce that apparently wanted so much, then try enjoy your new life and not concentrate on trivial things, the court assigned the money and if he ask for a money reduction just because the way the money is being spent remember the system is not on your side. But what do I know, I've been happily married for almost 30 years and don't see myself on the situation to know if I would be a good ex-wife or leave him without a cent which is pretty tempting (just kidding). Regards. AiR Aida I. Rivera-Benítez, MSMIS AiR Information Systems, Inc. Medical Billing Software & Clearinghouse P.O. Box 270152 San Juan PR 00927-0152 _______________________________________________ Post Messages to: [email protected] Subscription Maintenance: http://leafe.com/mailman/listinfo/profox OT-free version of this list: http://leafe.com/mailman/listinfo/profoxtech Searchable Archive: http://leafe.com/archives/search/profox This message: http://leafe.com/archives/byMID/profox/[EMAIL PROTECTED] ** All postings, unless explicitly stated otherwise, are the opinions of the author, and do not constitute legal or medical advice. This statement is added to the messages for those lawyers who are too stupid to see the obvious.
