Yep, that was another of the commercials. the memories... heh-heh... > -----Original Message----- > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Michael Madigan > Sent: Tuesday, May 13, 2008 10:26 AM > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Subject: RE: [NF] Contract not renewed. I'm mad as hell and I'm > notgonnatakeit any more! > > > Here's an apple jacks commercial. > > http://youtube.com/watch?v=f71_T82FXKo > > I don't remember this at all. > > > > > From: Gil Hale <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > Subject: RE: [NF] Contract not renewed. I'm mad as hell and I'm > not gonnatakeit any more! > > To: [email protected] > > Date: Tuesday, May 13, 2008, 10:15 AM > > You know, as I think about it, my son told me he got through > > all of his > > school years without being in a single fight. Very hard > > for a white kid to > > do when going to public school in San Bernardino, CA. I > > know I had shared > > my lessons of my youth with both my kids, including how I > > dealt with gang > > members and bullies. Joe did tell me he came close to > > getting into a fight > > he did not provoke, but told the kid that he (the bully) > > was going to get > > hurt real bad even if he were to "win" in a > > fight. Bullies bleed and feel > > pain also. > > > > I also told my kids about Kellogs Apple Jacks TV > > commercials that ran in the > > late 60s and early 70s. The scene was one where a puny kid > > (cartoon > > characters) gets picked on by a bully. The Apple Jacks > > character tells him > > to not let the bully get away with that, and gives him a > > bowl of Apple > > Jacks. The enxt day the bully picked on the little kid > > again, and the > > little kid whipped the bully. The chorus line was, > > "New Kellogs Apple > > Jacks, a bowl a day keeps the bullies away!? > > > > I wonder how many kids got the snot beat out of them by > > bullies because they > > tried Apple Jacks, and it just flat out did not work for > > them. Or, how many > > bullies ate Apple Jacks anticipating being able to be a > > tougher bully <g>... > > I don't think anyone could get away with a commercial > > like that today. I > > recall my kids laughing when I would tell them about that > > stupid commercial. > > > > Hey, this has started to drift into [OT] territory, huh? I > > guess it still > > ties back to how to deal with clients who are bullies. And > > all of our > > collective life experiences taught us a lot about how to > > deal with folks who > > are cruel and twisted. So, I will leave it on this edge as > > [NF]... > > > > > > Gil > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Alan > > Lukachko > > > Sent: Tuesday, May 13, 2008 9:43 AM > > > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > Subject: RE: [NF] Contract not renewed. I'm mad as > > hell and I'm not > > > gonnatakeit any more! > > > > > > > > > Hi Gil, > > > > > > I have an interesting parallel; perhaps not as > > involved, but the > > > same basic > > > "I don't take shit from nobody, no how > > !!" attitude. > > > > > > In grade school, my brother was being beaten up by the > > school yard bully > > > towards the end of recess one day at the end of > > winter. When I saw this, I > > > ran over and put the bully in a choke hold. He let go > > of my > > > brother and was > > > so shocked that I, the timid peaceful guy, beat him > > off my brother that he > > > never touched either of us for the rest of the the > > school year. And he > > > stayed clear of us the next year as well. I know the > > recess teacher saw > > > this, but never said anything to any of us. > > > > > > One of my first clients would "yell" at me > > and when he'd call my home, > > > "yell" at my wife if I wasn't there. > > Usually I'd quietly ask what > > > was wrong > > > and as quickly as possible fix the problem. One time, > > when I > > > wasn't home, he > > > got my wife and started "yelling" at her. > > She just "yelled" back > > > at him even > > > louder. He never "yelled" at her again and > > hasn't "yelled" at me since. > > > Although my wife died many years ago, the client is > > still my client and he > > > always talks to me in a reasonable civil manner. > > > > > > At a first meeting with another potential client, the > > owner started by > > > launching a lot of tough questions on my company's > > ability to provide the > > > solution they were looking for. I saw the bully rising > > and shot back with > > > the same degree of toughness. I finally said that I > > needed a retainer of > > > $5,000 to start. He told his comptroller to issue me a > > cheque and I walked > > > out with the $5,000 cheque in my hand. > > > > > > Violence is not the answer, but a single well placed > > and timed > > > "punch" does > > > wonders in dealing with bullies. > > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > > > > From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf > > > > Of Gil Hale > > > > Sent: Monday, May 12, 2008 8:28 PM > > > > To: [email protected] > > > > Subject: RE: [NF] Contract not renewed. I'm > > mad as hell and I'm > > > not gonna > > > > takeit any more! > > > > > > > <snip> > > > > > > > So, in later years, as back then, I was well > > aware that I was not the > > > > toughest or best fighter in the area - never > > wanted to be, it is not my > > > > nature. Not by a long shot. But nobody fucked > > with me either, as I may > > > > not > > > > win a fight, but I sure wasn't going to let > > anyone get the better of me > > > > without losing some blood in the process. There > > were easier targets to > > > > pick > > > > on than me. And I suppose after a long look back > > as to why I > > > am the way I > > > > am now, it all makes sense in a strange way. I > > don't let > > > anyone bully me. > > > > Some folks may be wealthier and more powerful > > than me in absolute terms. > > > > But I am in a position where I can't get hurt > > easily - and I > > > simply refuse > > > > to take shit off anyone. > > > > > > > > Oh, the memories... > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > [excessive quoting removed by server]
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