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hehehe... --- In [email protected], "Bukan Pedanda" <bukan.pedanda@...> wrote: > > > > Karena buat Islam perempuan itu hakekatnya cuman lobang buat dientotin > laki-laki dan bukan manusia.. > > > > http://www.aljazeera.com/programmes/witness/2012/05/201251115345899123.html > > > > Lover Boys > > This is the story of Ibrahim, a Dutch-Moroccan man tackling the taboo problem > of sex-trafficking within his community. > > Witness Last Modified: 15 May 2012 11:10 > > Filmmakers: Julia Rooke and Caroline Pare > > This is the story of Ibrahim, a courageous Dutch-Moroccan social worker in > the Netherlands who is tackling the high incidences of sex-trafficking of > young Dutch girls by their so-called 'boyfriends' - the Lover Boys - the > majority of whom are Dutch-Moroccan. > > It is a taboo subject, but Ibrahim and his allies, including a local sheikh, > are determined to remove this stain from their community. > > This raw and often graphic film introduces us to both perpetrators and > victims of this branch of internal sex-trafficking. > > Ibrahim does preventative work with vulnerable young men in youth clubs as > well as political lobbying to get the matter addressed in his local authority. > > The complications of working in a country where prostitution is legal for > over 18s, as well as cultural taboos within his own community, make for many > challenges - and he is only too aware that right-wing elements thrive on any > vulnerabilities among immigrant groups. > > The film includes a disguised interview with a former Lover Boy, as well as > harrowing and graphic testimonies from young women who were pimped by their > 'boyfriends' when aged 12 and 15. > > NOTE: This film contains some graphic descriptions of sexual abuse and some > strong language which has been appropriately beeped. > > By Ibrahim Wijbenga > > I got involved in the battle against human trafficking - and in particular > against the young pimps sometimes referred to as 'Lover Boys' - in 2003. > > It is a term too lovely to convey the horror of their actions: buying girls > gifts and fancy clothes with the aim of gradually establishing a tighter grip > over their lives and eventually forcing them into prostitution. > > In the Netherlands, many 'Lover Boys' - and some of their victims - are of > Moroccan origin. It was this connection to the country of my own roots that > inspired me to gather more information on them and their practices. > > 'Lover Boys' often seduce girls with gifts and promises of easy money. But > when those girls are from their own community, they also abuse the culture of > that community for their own ends. Once a girl from that community has lost > her virginity to a 'Lover Boy' she has little choice but to stay with him for > the other men in her community are unlikely to befriend or marry her. > > We knew that getting a hold on these boys would not only be a task for the > police, but that it would require getting the inside track on them - using > the forces within their community for prevention and utilising the power of > Islam and our imams, who have a strategically important position within the > Moroccan community. > > Most of the young men involved in this form of criminality are not scared of > a judge, the police or the prison system - but they are sensitive to the > standards of honour within their own community and will listen to the imams; > they are, after all, Muslim. > > We sought to confront them through both direct and indirect methods with > anti-propaganda against pimping as our central goal. Our aim was to make the > pimps lose face, to turn them into the laughing stock of their community and > to create an environment in which, if you are a pimp, you are considered the > biggest loser of all - a man without honour and the lowest form of criminal. > > Initially two imams, Abu Bakr el Fadil and Ahmed el Ouazzani, began the > process of information gathering and started using the Friday prayer to > launch a campaign on the issue of youth criminality, especially the problem > of forced prostitution and pimping among Moroccan youth. > > After some time I set up a network of imams, including well-known imams such > as Sheikh Shershaby, Sheikh Jneid Fawaz and Sheikh al Bakkali, who took the > battle against 'Lover Boys' nationwide. > > We also started an information campaign to warn young girls about the > practices of 'Lover Boys' and worked to inform their parents about the > practices of our youngsters. > > I also visited various courts across Holland and saw cases of 'Lover Boys' in > Utrecht, Den Bosch, Rotterdam, Arnhem and in The Hague. I attended court > sessions on human trafficking by young men. Unfortunately, many of them did > not receive any penalty or punishment due to lack of evidence or because > their victims withdrew their cases. Often the victims I saw at the courts > were young Dutch women, while many of the suspects came from immigrant > communities and were of Surinamese, Antillean, Moroccan or Turkish > backgrounds. > > Around this time I collaborated with Frank Bovenkerk, a professor from > Utrecht who wrote a book on this matter. He essentially identified the same > pattern: predominantly Dutch victims and suspects from various cultural > backgrounds. We began contributing to the discussion of this topic within > political parties and contacted the ministry of justice to see how we could > best help each other. > > My focus remained on the young men, but also on working with the parents of > young girls who often did not know that their daughter was a victim of a > 'Lover Boy'. > > As a result of our efforts, we have successfully reduced the number of > Moroccan men involved in pimping. But I have recently seen a new development > - the emergence of 'Lover Girls'. These girls often work for 'Lover Boys' > although they sometimes operate alone - becoming friends with a victim and > then dragging them into prostitution. Now they too have become targets of our > information campaigns. > > As our community has grown increasingly aware of the existence of 'Lover > Boys', their practices have become a hot topic of discussion in mosques and > schools. We have had to confront those groups and political parties who have > sought to use the fact that some Moroccan youth have been involved in this > form of criminality to turn the general population against the Muslim > community in its entirety. But it all starts with educating the young people > in our community. If they have positive role models - good brothers and > sisters - then good schools and neighbourhoods will follow. > > Islam teaches us to be good fathers and role models, to obey the law and to > give the best of ourselves. If we can beat the threats to our community and > the criminality within our ranks, then we can easily have harmony within > Dutch society. > > Watch this film on Al Jazeera English from Monday, May 14, at the following > times GMT: Monday: 2230; Tuesday: 0930; Wednesday: 0330; Thursday: 1630. > > Click here for more Witness > > > Source: > Al Jazeera > ------------------------------------ Post message: [email protected] Subscribe : [email protected] Unsubscribe : [email protected] List owner : [email protected] Homepage : http://proletar.8m.com/Yahoo! Groups Links <*> To visit your group on the web, go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/ <*> Your email settings: Individual Email | Traditional <*> To change settings online go to: http://groups.yahoo.com/group/proletar/join (Yahoo! ID required) <*> To change settings via email: [email protected] [email protected] <*> To unsubscribe from this group, send an email to: [email protected] <*> Your use of Yahoo! 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