Indahnya Islam tahu gak dimana ? Justru didalam keblingernya hukum yang bisa ditarik ulur itulah; bagi yang mampu menahan segalanya Insya Allaah selamat. Dia tetap berpatokan Ridha Illahi; dan bukan menurutkan hawa nafsunya !
Dan yang suka memperturutkan hawa nafsunyha ya Islamnya juga pointnya mungkin jeblok ! Apakah manusia jeblok inilah yang jadi ukuran ? Padahal ajaran Islam tak mengajarkan seperti itu ! Gaulilah istrimu dengan sepatutnya. Aturan ini tidak dideskripsikan dengan tegas; tapi bagi orang yau berpikir luas artinya. Memang secara HUKUM kekinian banyak kelemahan. Tapi Islam mendasarkaan pada TAKUT akan Allah. Yah yang ngaku Islam tapi tidak takut pada Allah; yaitu dengan memperturutkan hawa nafsunya anda sendiri bisa NGUKUR sejauh mana Islamnya ! --- On Fri, 12/7/12, Rahwana <[email protected]> wrote: From: Rahwana <[email protected]> Subject: Re: [proletar] Re: CNN: Divorce by text message sparks bizarre legal battle in Indonesia To: [email protected] Received: Friday, December 7, 2012, 11:16 PM hahahaha....maka dengan demikian islam menghargai dan menghormati wanita....kata orang islam....hwakakakak...indahnya islam...rahmatan lilalamin... On Fri, Dec 7, 2012 at 11:27 AM, pinpinyuliansyah < [email protected]> wrote: > ** > > > talak lewat sms memang legal secara islam. bisa juga lewat titip pesen > "tolong bilang sama si a, gw ceraikan die gitu! " kalimat ini juga sah dan > legal dalam islam. bahkan dengan kalimat "pulang sana ke orang tua mu! " > ucapan inipun adalah sah dan legal. atau afdolnya begini, cukup bilang " > anu . . . dengan ini saya ceraikan kamu dengan talak satu . . . " kalimat > ini sudah sah secara islam. > > bukan mengada ada. tapi itulah adanya. > > --- In [email protected], Gabriella Rantau <gkrantau@...> wrote: > > > > Mnrt pengacara Aceng talak melalui SMS itu legal dlm Islam. Memangnya > ketika Nabi Junjungan menceraikan salah satu bininya, beliau juga ketik > Talak lewat Ponsel? > > > > Ada2 saja sodara2 kita Muslim ini! > > > > Gabriella > > > > > > > > > > > > ________________________________ > > From: Bukan Pedanda <bukan.pedanda@...> > > > To: [email protected] > > Sent: Thursday, 6 December 2012 2:55 PM > > Subject: [proletar] CNN: Divorce by text message sparks bizarre legal > battle in Indonesia > > > > > >  > > > > Peristiwa cere liwat SMS itu ternyata samp juga ke CNN.. > > > > -- > > > > [CNN] > > Divorce by text message sparks bizarre legal battle in Indonesia > > By Kathy Quiano, CNN > > December 6, 2012 -- Updated 0627 GMT (1427 HKT) > > > > CNN.com > > > > Jarkarta, Indonesia (CNN) -- The marriage lasted four days and ended in > divorce via text message, from the 40-year-old local politician to his > 17-year-old wife. > > > > Aceng Fikri claimed his young bride Fani Oktara was not a virgin, as she > had claimed, so he decided to end the union, his lawyer Ujang Suja'I said. > > > > She denied it, and in turn accused Aceng -- who is the head of the > district of Garut in West Java -- of spreading baseless accusations against > her. Her lawyer Danny Suliwisjaya told CNN that Aceng had deceived his > client into marriage. > > > > Aceng caused a stir after his July wedding to Fani. Although 16 is the > legal age for marriage in Indonesia, Aceng was already married with > children. Few Muslims practice polygamy, and while it is not against the > law, Indonesian civil servants are also prohibited from taking on second > spouses under strict regulations governing their private lives. > > > > A photo of the alleged wedding ceremony was posted on the Internet. > Religious weddings are common in Indonesia but marriages need to be civilly > and legally registered. > > > > Aceng claimed divorcing his wife through text messaging is allowed under > Islamic Sharia law, his lawyer said. > > > > Public outrage over the marriage, and subsequent divorce, came after > Fani reported Aceng to the police on Monday, asking that he be charged with > falsifying his marital status, fraud, defamation and unpleasant conduct. > > > > Police are still investigating Fani's complaint; as yet, there are no > charges against Aceng. > > > > There have since been daily protests in Garut, calling for his > resignation. > > > > The girl's lawyer, Danny Suliswijaya, told CNN she and her family > decided to go public only after months of asking Aceng for an apology. > > > > Suliswijaya said Aceng told Fani that he was a widower. > > > > "He said he married Fani as his only wife, so he cheated and failed to > tell the truth," Suliswijaya said. The lawyer claims Aceng also reneged on > promises to send her to university and to the minor Hajj in Mecca. > > > > The embattled official apologized late Monday but stood by his version > of the story. "If what I did was wrong, even though it was allowed by > Islamic law, then I deeply apologize to my family and my ex-wife," he told > reporters. Ujang told CNN they will report Fani and her family to the > police, seeking charges of fraud and extortion. > > > > "Aceng accused her of not being a virgin on the second day of their > marriage and she didn't deny it. That's why Aceng decided to end the > marriage and send her back to her parents," Aceng's lawyer said. Fani's > attorney insists the accusations are baseless. > > > > According to his lawyer, Aceng gave the girl's family 43 million rupiah > (roughly $4,000) for her university fees and the minor Hajj trip. He says > the girl's family agreed to the settlement but continued to contact Aceng > for more money, "blackmailing the district head." Fani's attorney denies > Aceng's claims, and says all his client wanted was an apology. > > > > Indonesian President Susilo has ordered the Home Affairs Ministry to > summon Aceng and investigate the matter. On Wednesday, Garut's local > legislative council also decided to create a special committee to look into > Aceng's case. > > > > His lawyer said the case needed "to go through legal channels," and that > his client's potential removal as district chief was not imminent: "the > council has to wait for the results of the police investigation before > making a decision on Aceng's dismissal." > > > > Women and children's rights activists, however, welcome the > investigations and the public outcry over the case. > > > > Muhammad Ihsan, secretary of the Commission for the Protection of > Indonesian Children or KPAI, told CNN the regent head may be held liable > for a sexual offense, if it is proven that the regent head deceived the > teenage girl. > > > > The commission says human trafficking, the illegal sex trade and the > exploitation of women are rampant, particularly in the province of West > Java. > > > > In not a few cases, parents or relatives give up their teenage daughters > for marriage, in exchange for money. > > > > Ihsan said that when the facts of this case become clearer, it could > highlight well-known and common practices of exploiting young women. > > > > "If a public official is allowed to get away with behavior like this, > then the public will think this is acceptable", said Ihsan. > > > > Rudy Madanir contributed to this report. > > 17 > > Comments » > > > > Print > > Email > > More sharing > > > > © 2012 Cable News Network. 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