It went great.  We got along really well.  He got here Friday afternoon.  My friend was here when he got here.  We all sat and chatted.  After she left we talked and ordered pizza then got in my bed/couch.  I don't get on the couch to watch tv so I jump in bed to do so.  We didn't get into anything too hot and heavy, but he did make a place in my bed and slept in there with me.  We did pretty good for a single size hospital bed.  I was surprised.  Good thing I lost that weight.  I explained to him that the kissing and cuddling was fine, but I wasn't ready and didn't know when I would be.  He was very understanding.  My spasms were off the hook and he was OK by it.  I was really worried how he would react by them.  Saturday my friend called and asked if we wanted to go to lunch so we went with her, her husband, and her mom.  While I was in the bathroom they made plans for all of us to pick the left over crabs from the 4th and Jenn's Mom would make crab cakes so we sat outside, had drinks and laughs and later went to dinner over there.  We came home and watched a comedy tape (blue collar comedy tour)  It was funny as hell and if anyone runs across it, get it.  It was so funny.  Anyhow we hung out Sunday morning, had lunch and he had to go.  It was so nice and we talked and decided to keep seeing each other and are excited to see where it will go.  He's coming back down next week.  I have to get a damn abscess cut out of my breast that is right by the nipple so I don't know if he'll be sleeping in my room, but didn't schedule any appointments for himself on Friday so will be here earlier.  I'm pretty excited.  So, there ya go Sarah, the juice.  If there is anything juicier to tell, I will fill ya in, but still don't think it'll happen for a bit yet. 
 
 I'm pretty sensitive about the sex issue these days.  I think it's a much bigger deal for some reason.  If anyone could share some of their first experiences in private email if you would be more comfortable, I would appreciate it.  Any tips or things I should be concerned about?  I know about the general stuff because I have read the literature, but on the more personal side.  I'm scared that I can't make him happy and how can I make him feel comfortable because he will be feeling the same way I am sure.  I'm pretty sure that I wont be able to wait much longer.  It's been far too long and I really like him a lot.  Any advice is appreciated.
 
Stacy
Stacy
 
"True happiness lies not in everything you want, but rather enjoying everything you have"
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Your not the only one left out Smurf.  This party got started by my post.  Something about my birthday and the 4th got it going.   I just expect my presents mailed to me and a toast to me. LOL.  I'll be thinking about you guys.
 
I have something better going this weekend though.  I have met someone online about a month ago and we have talked every night since.  Thank God for that Freedom plan through verizon it doesn't cost extra for the calls long distance.  He lives about 6 hours away in Pennsylvania.  He's coming down Friday and leaving Sunday.  He is well aware that he is getting a hotel room on Friday and we'll see about Sat.  He will be staying in the extra room if that is the case.  We interact very well when we talk and have seen many pictures and on web cam.  He works for a medical supply company.  Mostly with doctors and therapists.  He was doing a people search for md/pa on yahoo and came across my profile and was attracted to my smile and the fact that he could understand things that I wrote.  He's never dated a girl in a chair, but is well aware of many things that para's and quads go through.  I am very comfortable with him visiting, but if there is an issue, I have a big strapping over protective brother that lives right around the corner a few houses away and my next door neighbors and I are very close.  We share a driveway that close.  I have a medical alert button and a phone by my bed so I am well prepared.  I am sure I won't need any of them though.  My brother is already talking about how often he will be stopping by. I also can't forget about my protective cat that attacks people that take too much of my time.   So wish me luck everyone.  I have been a single girl for a bit over 3 years since my sickness.  I won't be doing anything compromising and I know the fact that we will have to discuss things and be prepared in case we decide to have some  extra fun.  I doubt that will happen though.  I want to make sure that it is right.  The time and the person who the fun will be had with. 
 
Off to straighten up the other room,
Stacy
Hey Stacy!
 
Soooooooooooooooooo  how did it go when you met this lad?  Tell all!
 
Love Smurf xxx 

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