[QUAD-L] bowel program/living alone

[TheOmen723]

hi everyone          i've been wanting to move out of my moms house and go to college for over a year now but because of my pain in my hips/back i can't see myself keeping up with a normal school schedule.  plus i was told by my health care provider that i probably wouldn't be able to get bowel care because the nurse that does it would be liable if something happened to me during bp.  right now my mom is doing it.  i don't understand how a person who doesn't have a family member to do their bp and is living on their own, gets the bp done.  am i being lied to by my healthcare provider.  i would get my mom to keep doing it after i move out but she'll be living an hour away.  thats too much gas to burn every two days.        those who live on their own- i need advice on how i should prepare to live on my own.   luke