I have a woman for 20 years, I am 42, but I no longer enjoy sex. I can take viagra, she can sit on me and stuff, but because I am unable to come, the whole thing is not very special. I have always been VERY, auto erotic and have had sex with myself 90% of the time, always ending with a big BANG. In the absence of this and the complete disconnect, of not ever feeling horny, it's not very pleasurable.

I would rather have full sexual function than bowel/bladder control,

What do you guys think?

Liz wrote:
My man is extremely satisfied.
a quad woman


    ----- Original Message -----
    From: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
    To: andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
    Cc: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>
    Sent: Thursday, December 23, 2004 3:57 PM
    Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration

It is true that quad men are know for their abilities in the
bedroom. They are said to know how to really please a woman. Never
heard it the other way around before.
Stacy


        ----- Original MessIage -----
        From: andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
        To: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
        Cc: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>
        Sent: Thursday, December 23, 2004 3:52 PM
        Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration

        Thanks Stacy, You have shared your feeling about us women. I
        know that the men on the quid list is not superficial, but they
        do not thank about the quad women. How we feel! I just want to
        be held and love by a man I love. But, every time I think me
        soul mate is found he disappeared. How do us girl get good
        feeling about ourselfs? What do you guys want from us? We don't
        have the thumb. Wheelchair Warrior Andrea

        Stacy Harim <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

I'm sorry. I know that. I should have said most. I know
also that you guys here on the list aren't. I apologize for
saying it because I knew when I said it that ALL men AREN'T
superficial.
can you find in your heart to forgive me?Embarrassed smiley
emoticon,
Stacy


                ----- Original Message -----
                From: Martin T. Brown <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
                To: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ;
                Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ; andrea
                murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
                Cc: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>
                Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 3:52 AM
                Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration

[quote] Men are superficial. They just think we can't
have sex, therefore they can't get off. [/quote]
Stacy don't swing this term above imposing that all men
are superficial, we are not.
QuadMedic


                    ----- Original Message -----
                    From: Stacy Harim <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
                    To: Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]> ;
                    andrea murray <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
                    Cc: [email protected] <mailto:[email protected]>
                    Sent: Wednesday, December 22, 2004 10:05 AM
                    Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Frustration

What my friend Andrea said is so true. I'm in the
prime of my life at 30. I'm not a beauty queen, but
I think that I am an attractive person. I used to
get hit on all the time. Some of you guys talk
about how you have had girlfriends, partners,
wives. A lot of women like men in chairs because
they feel less threatened. Men are superficial. They just think we can't have sex, therefore they
can't get off. I go out on occasion. Before I got
sick I used to get hit on all the time and get
drinks bought for me. Since I got sick, I haven't
had someone I don't know buy me a drink since I got
sick. Socializing and talking to new people is not
a problem and I am a very approachable person. I
have a good time, dance, and smile while I am out. We never sit at a table. We are always at the bar
or in the general area. Never have our backs to
people. I know the chances of meeting my soul mate
in a ! bar aren't good, but damn, they don't even
look twice.
It's funny, we went to a customer appreciation party
at a rest/club/bar. They had a DJ. My friends and
I were up there dancing and some woman came up and
started dancing with me, holding my hands and
treating me like I was mentally disabled. Telling
my friend who is also a girl how pretty I was. It
was so funny. I was cracking up. Trying to pull my
hands away, she wouldn't let me. Was pretty strange.
Just a funny story to share. My Gift to you,
Stacy


                        ----- Original Message -----
                        From: andrea murray
                        <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
                        To: Steve Oldaker <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
                        Cc: [email protected]
                        <mailto:[email protected]>
                        Sent: Tuesday, December 21, 2004 10:09 PM
                        Subject: RE: [QUAD-L] Frustration

                        Billy,
                        Sexual frustration is the big problem for me
                        too. First of all be being a women with a
                        disability is really hard to get a man to just
                        to see you as being sexual. Even men with a
                        disability want a non-disability women. Like
                        Steve if you gave the slution PLEASE let me know.
                        Wheelchair Warrior

                        Steve Oldaker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]
                        <mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]>> wrote:

Billy...
Do I suffer sexual frustration? Only daily,
many times...
If you find the solution, share it with the
group!
Steve


                                -----Original Message-----
                                From: B. Kimberlin
                                [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
                                Sent: Monday, December 20, 2004 8:39 PM
                                To: Quad
                                Subject: [QUAD-L] Frustration

                                This is a serious question, not to
                                insinuate that other questions are not,
                                but I recall one individual who was so
                                preoccupied with sex that I felt
                                compelled to leave the site for a short
                                amount of time just to get away from
                                him. Anyway, does anyone else on here
                                suffer from bouts of extreme sexual
                                frustration? I frequently attribute this
                                frustration to a lack of female
                                companionship, but it is often very
                                difficult to concentrate on other things
                                when I become fixated on this particular
                                subject. Any suggestions?

                                Billy

                                
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