Hi Tony,
I'm with you on this one. I am me, and if a lady can't see me because of my chair, or the fact that I'm a Quad, I probably wouldn't be interested in getting to know her anyway. I've used my Quadhood to start more conversations with females than I've had it interfere with them. Just be yourself, trust in yourself, and let it happen! You may be surprised with what will happen when you're least expecting it to happen. ; - )
With Love,
CtrlAltDel aka Dave
C4/5 Complete - 28 Years Post
Texas, USA
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
In a message dated 2/8/2005 9:33:56 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
They don't see the real person and I am not myself. You
may not see others "get the girl" that sucks, and I truly feel that
once you allow yourself to acknowledge that it sucks without putting
yourself down, you won't feel so defeated.
consider this:
"quads never get the girl that sucks, I feel like crap and I can't do
crap, no one will ever love me"
.....River is very right about this!! I have to always beware of comparing myself to other dudes...it's defeating!! Plus, you have to mark up the defeats as part of this beautiful experience we call 'quadism.' It's not YOU...it's quadism, you'd be killin em if you weren't quad.
-tony
