I actually talked to a para for pushing a year on
the computer. He was a jackass like the rest of men.
seems like a generalization AND a bad attitude.
dave
In a message dated 2/12/2005 7:34:01 P.M. US Mountain Standard Time,
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
I actually talked to a para for pushing a year on the computer. He was a
jackass like the rest of men. He was supposed to come up and meet
me. His Dad was sick and said he was going up there instead and wished
he could be here instead. Come to find out I heard from someone else
that I chat with that he was using his Dad as an excuse to see an able
bodied girl further up North. UGH men. A prime example even a para
doesn't want me.
Stacy
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Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Relationships and
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In a message dated 2/11/2005 9:32:20 AM
Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
You're the first one to catch onto my observation
Billy. I thought that I may have stirred the pot with my
observation. All of us are talking about relationships with
able-bodied people. If we don't want to be with people like us, why
would we expect able-bodied people to want us?
Of course there would be
difficulties and some hardships but at least we would understand what the
other person is going through. We would obviously need help by
caregivers but having somebody around that not only gives but can receive
affection can go along way.
Jim
....i'm going to be
honest here, so sue me if i'm not politically correct. i couldn't be
with a girl in a chair, although i have felt attracted to a few years
ago. It's not for me, i need to have that female reactions to
stimulation...plus, there's other emotional things i need.
Most girls
i've been with never imagined going with a dude in a chair...it's not
something you ever think about as an AB. But i really have to give my
ex-girls a LOT of credit for having the strength to be with me in
every way...i know it was scarey for them at first, but became very routine
later. I'm not just talkin about the sex here, it takes quite a bit of
strength to see yourself with a person in a chair. I'll say this for
the girls in my past, i really respect them for seeing me for WHO i
am...they looked past the chair so damn easy, and we had great times.
-tony c5c6
The
moral flabbiness born of the bitch goddess Success. That- with the squalid cash
interpretation put on the word success- is our national disease. -William
James 1906
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