Hi LQ,
I understand the resentment he must feel, and since you're there, a lot of it gets directed at you. Kids are really smart so hang in there with him, and in time he will turn his resentment around and direct the love he has inside at you!
With Love,
CtrlAltDel aka Dave
C4/5 Complete - 29 Years Post
Texas, USA
~LittleQuad~ <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
well thanks for the answer! he has a lot of resentment from his dad being away, my being in chair.. plus he's lonely...no kids really....sometimes i think it's more of my tolerance level.i love him to pieces and would go nuts without him! when he went to his dad for 30 days, i missed the chatter!! haha
"David K. Kelmer" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:Hi LQ,Funny how kids are. My boys would drive my wife crazy with complaints, but when they were with me they were real good. It might have been the fact that they lost privileges if they complained to me about trivia things and their Mom just 'said' to them that they would lose their privileges. They knew I acted and Mom talked. Kids understand action. Good luck!
With Love,
CtrlAltDel aka Dave
C4/5 Complete - 29 Years Post
Texas, USA
~LittleQuad~ <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:do you have probs with kids griping 24/7?? my 7 yr old son does on everything....the commercials, the pc won'tt go fast enough, his toys won't work right, bed at 8pm is too early... i didn't have any of that when his age.....just unbelievable...i think i'm going to tape him to a chair as if he were disabled like me for a day and see if that clears it up?? you think??he has no appreciation for anything. i have tried to make sure he learns to value everything, well it ain't working anymore!he worked yesterday out in the yard and earned 5 dollars, today he won't do anything without griping, back tackling or mumbling under his breath. all of which i used to do until i got backslapped one good time (age 15).....i don't want to have to do that..HELP PLEASE!!!???
