Re: [QUAD-L] Men and Women Quaids

Sat, 05 Nov 2005 17:08:45 -0800

don't be silly liz, why would anybody knowingly go out and buy damaged goods.  all psychological things being equal, why buy a dead horse.  everyone has garbage both physical AND mental.  why look for a broken body, just to prove something?  if it happens, it happens bu one doesn't go out purposly LOOKING for a broken mate.  i think i'll go find me a gimp to live with the rest of my life... not.
 
 

Liz <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
AB's come with garbage just as much as a quad does.  Disability comes in many forms.  just because a guy can crap on his own doesn't make him better than anyone else.
 
point is;  Never settle.  You are worthy of being loved by someone and loving someone in return.
----- Original Message -----
From: A.B.C.
Sent: Saturday, November 05, 2005 7:38 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Men and Women Quaids

what a silly question.  a quaid person is someone who will need some 'taking care of' physically, and an AB isn't.  why buy a bag of troubles when there are other choices?  i can't even imagine a quaid prefering another quaid over an AB all other things being equal. 
 


Liz <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
I'm opening a can of worms here.  Disabled individuals fall in love with AB or other disabled folks.  Love is love.  I know of people in chairs (definitely not a PC term) that have fallen in love and have married.)  Personally I have been attracted to athletic, financially stable guys (quads and paras) I met playing  wheelchair tennis.  We swapped some spit but due to distance never pursued anything.
 
I happened to find a guy by chance who's AB and it works out for me.  he is not my caregiver, as it is my belief , I think it would add a stressful situation.  Some quads make it work with their lover as their caregiver.  I am not one of those.
 
I did get my NM magazine today.  If you would like I can mail it to you.
 
You may want to enable spellchecker on your emails as it may clarify some wording.
 
Liz
----- Original Message -----
To: Liz
Sent: Saturday, November 05, 2005 3:53 PM
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Men and Women Quaids


Thank you Lis,
Yes you gave me the womens point of view with the stories from the new newmobility magazine,Yes, I am a paras. Can I ask you one more quistion. Is it more easyer to have a AB man?
Wheelchair Warrior 
Liz <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
I'm sorry I'm not quite sure what you are asking? 
 Body image?
Why there are more AB women with quad guys?  (statistically as there are more male SCI than women?)
Why a quad man would not date a quad women?
Are you including paras?
 
 
Many of the quad women I know are involved with AB men (including myself).
 
There's an article in the new newmobility magazine @ women with disabilities and body image.  I haven't received my copy yet but the cover pic is on their website
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Saturday, November 05, 2005 2:47 PM
Subject: [QUAD-L] Men and Women Quaids

I have been wondering why Quid men do not see Quid woman the same way as they see a non disabled woman. In a sexual way or as a mate. I"m doing a research and don't hold back. I also want the women view too. How do you abaut yourselfs?
Wheelchair Warrior

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