Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

[S. Dial]

Begitee,   I became a c3 quad in 1986 at 18 yrs old and like you, I felt scared and uncertain about how my life would play out. I've spent most of the last 20 years hiding away from society and myself and let depression and insecurity rule my life. I have been living in a nursing home for the last 4 years and will probably do so until my life ends, and for what? I'm not sure. I had opportunities to get my education and become a vital member of society but I squandered them due to foolishness regarding my disability. I have disabled friends who went on to get their degrees, good jobs and many are married with children and have homes and independence that I can only dream of -- don't be like me! Pursue all avenues available to you, in Vocational Rehabilitation, college grants or scholarships. Whatever you do don't let any opportunities for a positive independent life pass you by - you're young and most likely will live MANY more years - make them the best they can be for you!   Best of luck,   Stephanie