Hey everybody,
I am in a bit of a pickle and I'm not sure how to handle the situation.  
Approximately 5 days after I was in my accident, my son's father filed for 
custody.  The only thing I can remember is laying there, with a halo on, in a 
semi-drug-induced coma, thinking I didn't want my son to become a ward of the 
state.  So of course I allowed my power of attorney to sign over papers.  Now a 
little over a year and a half later I am in my own place and he is refusing to 
let my son stay here anymore than every other weekend citing that the parental 
roles are now reversed.  My ex says that I should be caring for and supporting 
our son but if he is at home with me he would be caring for and supporting me 
due to my situation (can I remind you my son is 16).  He had been getting up on 
his own for school since he was in 7th grade and there is a bus stop three 
blocks away.  He is not involved in or expected to be involved in my cares when 
he is with me, I have PCA's for that.  My ex also
 mentioned that he does not want another disruption to our sons routine (not 
that he didn't have to get used to one when I got in my accident).  Prior to my 
accident my son and I were joined at the hip and has mentioned that he would 
like to stay here more than every other weekend.  Being dependent on SSDI 
there's not a lot of money for an attorney.  Oh, and did I mention my ex and I 
were in the middle of a child support battle when I got in my accident?  He was 
hoping to get his payments reduced.  Help, I've called legal aid and they don't 
even have room to put my name on a waiting list.  Any comments or suggestions 
would be greatly appreciated.  Thank you and I apologize for the lengthy post.
  Journey well through life,
  Lucinda

 
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