This is a topic that is often overlooked by many doctors treating such violent injuries. You have just lost a lot of your abilities and it is natural that you feel your husband isn't understanding your loss. Your husband just had a major loss too, and nobody is addressing his feelings. Please take the time to see a psychiatrist. I'm not saying you or your husband are doing anything wrong. You are being confronted with issues that many relationships never deal with and it is ok to ask for help. It is a big hurdle and many couples don't make it. Good luck, john -----Original Message----- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [email protected] Sent: Tue, 17 Apr 2007 7:07 PM Subject: [QUAD-L] Husbands
As I have told you all, I am a C4, my accident was just two years ago. I am 48, I have a husband I've been married to for 24 years, I raised three boys one is still at home. My husband is having a terrible time with my accident, he has been doing a lot of my care. I have hired home health to get me up and also have someone coming in for part of the day. I don't wanna lose him, I haven't found any support groups for him, are there any online? Any suggestions? Thanks Debbie Ahhh...imagining that irresistible "new car" smell? Check out new cars at Yahoo! Autos. ________________________________________________________________________ AOL now offers free email to everyone. Find out more about what's free from AOL at AOL.com.
