Hi Kandy, Have you seen if a SKILLED NURSING FACILITY will take him for a 
while? That was an option they gave me when I was newly injured--but i'm in 
Missouri. Each state can be a bit different. Also...it is not even 2009 
yet---but you have to wait until Nov. 0f 2010 for medicare? must be a 2 year 
wait..   I know we have a couple of people from your state on this list---- JIM 
is one, perhaps one of them may have more knowledge on your state rules.
                      you all will be in my prayers,           Dan H.

--- On Thu, 12/18/08, [email protected] <[email protected]> wrote:

From: [email protected] <[email protected]>
Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Resource help
To: [email protected], [email protected]
Date: Thursday, December 18, 2008, 4:33 PM



Hi Kandy,
 
I am truly sorry for the family in reading your posting and wish both you and 
your husband the very best.
As a care giver, you must also protect yourself, other wise you will end up in 
the hospital from exhaustion.  I believe that there are a couple of members on 
this list from your state of Minnesota and will chime in to help provide you 
with local information.  As soon as I receive this info, I will advise.
 
Best Wishes
 
 
 

In a message dated 12/18/2008 4:02:56 P.M. Central Standard Time, 
[email protected] writes:

Hi, my name is Kandy.
 
My husband was in a car accident on 5/10 and has been been in hospital ever 
since.  He has a C-4 complete injury.  His injury is quad with trach 
dependence.  His vocal cords are paralyzed but can tolerate speaking valve for 
about an hour 3 times a day.  Currently he is not eligible for MA (got knocked 
off because insurance is paying at 100% at this time, and our income is too 
high.)  I have recently lost my job, need to continue Cobra coverage so we have 
health insurance.  But still do not meet the guidelines for MA.  I am currently 
trying to get husband into nursing home to continue his therapies.  He has been 
turned down by 37 nursing homes mainly due to his care needs.  Since he does 
not qualify for MA, he don't qualify for CADI/CAC waiver services.  I am trying 
to bring him home, but need home modifications and a nurse.
I am currently learing all his cares which include trach cares, peg tub cares, 
meds, bowel management...
 
~ The only problem with that is that his cares at this time are 24/7, and some 
point I need to be able to sleep.  I have enlisted volunteers which have put in 
a door and built a ramp but our house is old farm house with small rooms and 
doors that will not accomodate him.
 
IF anyone has any state or federal resources they can give me, it would be 
greatly appreciated.  We live in Minnesota.  He cannot receive medicare until 
November of 2010. 
 
Any suggestions out there?  I just want to get my husband home. 
 
Thanks, Kandy





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