wow bobbie, don't come down on urself, nor accept a nursing home. Hear that? i think u may hav a few yrs on me but mono e' mono (that'll get sh*t) i personally wouldn't know what to do n Parsippany w/o the 'maze'! Thank You Ms Humphreys...may have got that wrong, sry ms, miss, mrs....
Eric W Rudd [email protected] ----- Original Message ----- From: Bobbie Humphreys To: Debbie Hamilton Cc: [email protected] Sent: Sunday, October 17, 2010 5:52 AM Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Anniversary Debbie, My husband is also my soul 24/7 care giver and i don't want to out live him either. I to believe I will need to go into a nursing home if I out live him. I live in Northern New Jersey and if I were to go into a nursing home I plan on moving upstate New York. Why, you might be asking, because the care givers that would be taking care of me would be from the immediate area. In my location that would be people from Newark which is an inner city and I just would not be comfortable. By moving upstate New York the care givers would be locals from a small town community, and my older brother and youngest sister live up there. I'm C 5,6,7 36 years post and my body is really feeling the years in the chair. I spent all of July & August in bed and just this morning was informed that I'm going to have to wray in again at least a few weeks. Bobbie Sent from my iPad On Oct 17, 2010, at 15:59, Debbie Hamilton <[email protected]> wrote: Congratulations Joan! I am 51 years old, and I'm also a C4. I am five years post accident. They gave me 10 years give-or-take. The quad list sure has made me think otherwise. A lot of people have been quads past 10 years. I had always been in good shape, and still feel that I am. It's a little scary, I don't want to out live my husband because then I won't have a caregiver and will probably end up in a nursing home. I think that's my greatest fear. What is your living situation? Debbie C4 incomplete/April 2005 --- On Fri, 10/15/10, Joan Anglin <[email protected]> wrote: From: Joan Anglin <[email protected]> Subject: [QUAD-L] Anniversary To: [email protected] Date: Friday, October 15, 2010, 7:20 PM Today is a day to celebrate. 20 years ago at 2:30 PM I fell off of some scaffolding and fell 10 feet-that was just enough to make me a C4 complete. But considering that I was told that I probably wouldn’t live a normal life line time wise I have proved them wrong and plan to do so for the next 10 years at least! I have had the joy of seeing four more grandchildren-age 13 on down-and two great grandchildren. My health is excellent, I can still be active and my favorite line is “I still haven’t figured out what I want to be when I grow up”. So at 71 I look forward to an anticipated fantastic next 10 years and am looking forward to all the new inventions that will help most of us live better lives that I could have ever dreamed possible 20 years ago. Many thanks for this list, it has enabled me to learn more about what’s new and shaking. Joan
