Hi Billy,

I don't have any data. But I do know that in many subcultures, a husband 
slapping a wife is considered as normal as a parent spanking a child (and of 
course, vice versa in Northern Europe).

So, I could easily believe that 40% of Indian Households engage in behavior 
that would qualify in the West as spousal abuse; whether it has the same 
destructive connotations as it would in the West is a much more difficult 
question.   If you include various forms of emotional abuse -- especially from 
in-laws -- the number might even be higher...

-- Ernie P.

On Mar 27, 2012, at 1:12 PM, [email protected] wrote:

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> Chris :
> Maybe Ernie can shed some light on this. However, I am suspicious about the 
> data.
> 40 % seems to be exaggerated, especially since the article admits that many
> hospitals  --obviously relevant to the question of effects of domestic 
> violence--
> have poor records and don't systematically collect such information. Where, 
> then,
> are the figures coming from ?
>  
> IF the answer is "women's empowerment groups" then you can count on inflated 
> numbers.
>  
> This is not to say that there isn't a serious problem. But it would be plenty 
> serious if
> the rate was "only" 10 % or 15 %.  But 40 % really seems to me to be off the 
> charts.
>  
> Reason for my skepticism is the way that American feminist groups habitually 
> exaggerate
> similar numbers here, like the false claim that one out of three US women are 
> rape victims
> --or victims of attempted rape--   at some  point in their lives. Christina 
> Hoff Summers
> exploded that claim back in the 90s as seriously flawed. When a writer 
> exaggerates for
> effect that is one thing ;  when a policy influencing organization does it, 
> things may
> be very serious and rise to the level of fraud.
>  
> Where a higher than normal domestic violence rate is verified from anecdotal 
> evidence,
> but a lot of it, is among Muslim families.  Yet the article only mentions 
> Hindu names.
> Uhhhh, someone is trying to mess with readers' heads.
>  
> Still, to use the example of acid attacks on women,  which I once looked into,
> there definitely is a problem in India outside of the Muslim community. 
> Clearly
> the problem is much worse among Muslims but it definitely exists
> among some Hindus.
>  
>  
> Anyway, Ernie ought to have access to evidence on the subject.
>  
> Billy
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> 3/27/2012 9:25:18 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time, [email protected] writes:
> Since India gets mentioned here from time to time, I thought you might be 
> interested in this from another discussion group of mine that deals with 
> family and divorce issues.  The attorney who sent this helped a female friend 
> of ours from India work out a difficult situation with her ex-husband who had 
> mental health problems.
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> A significant number of my international family law cases involve DV.  
> Globalization requires that family law professionals understand what happens 
> in other cultures in order to understand the experience and expectations of 
> the families we work with.
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> From The New York Times:
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> THE FEMALE FACTOR: When Home Is No Refuge for Women
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> As more Indian women share their experiences, it is clear how widespread 
> domestic violence is, cutting across community, caste and economic lines. But 
> India has begun to acknowledge the problem.
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> http://nyti.ms/GUKMGz
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